Chat Why I Fornicate

[therealcole]

There are no saints on this forum, we all have 'issues', some more than others...

There is a big difference between hobbying for fun and cheating on your SO. That is like drinking at with some friends and drinking and driving. 2 totally different things. One is ok the other is not. I will let you figure out which is which.

 

[hangul99]

What other people decide to do without my knowledge is a different thing. there is no way for me to know if they are married. If I find out that they are married then I would and have stopped seeing them. Seems pretty simple to me. I also know that I would never drive drunk. I would never speed in a school zone. I would never offer alcohol or cigarettes to a minor.
Who says that I have a god. I never said that I had a god or that I was religious. You are reading words that are not there. I can and will say what I want just like you are doing as well. It is interesting how you can criticize me for what I say but I can not criticize you for what you say. I suppose that you will block me now because you can not debate topics without getting upset. LOL

Who's upset? Im not. Its a free country, you're entitled to your beliefs. Im just not in favour of people looking down on others for their choices. If someone wants to cheat, let them cheat. I dont consider them less of a person for doing so. Everyone has their own demons.

There is nothing to debate. Its a difference of opinion.

 

[therealcole]

Who's upset? Im not. Its a free country, you're entitled to your beliefs. Im just not in favour of people looking down on others for their choices. If someone wants to cheat, let them cheat. I dont consider them less of a person for doing so. Everyone has their own demons.

There is nothing to debate. Its a difference of opinion.

Cheating is a fact not an opinion. Making a promise/commitment to one person and breaking it because it will save a marriage. Is bullshit. Again not an opinion just a fact. Drinking and driving is ok? That is cheating the law. Stealing is ok? That is cheating the owner of the business. That is ok? I someone chooses to beat a woman and you are ok with that? It was their choice after all. You can try all you want to make shit taste good. It is still and will always be shit. Cheating on your SO is the new demon so it is ok. We are talking about it so now it is ok. Just like Trump. These are facts and laws not opinions.

 

[OG_funguy]

Cheating is a fact not an opinion. Making a promise/commitment to one person and breaking it because it will save a marriage. Is bullshit. Again not an opinion just a fact. Drinking and driving is ok? That is cheating the law. Stealing is ok? That is cheating the owner of the business. That is ok? I someone chooses to beat a woman and you are ok with that? It was their choice after all. You can try all you want to make shit taste good. It is still and will always be shit. Cheating on your SO is the new demon so it is ok. We are talking about it so now it is ok. Just like Trump. These are facts and laws not opinions.

What you said doesn't even make sense. Are you saying hangul99 is not entitled to his opinion just because it's a 'fact'.

Here are a couple of facts...women have pussies and men have dicks. I happen to think pussies are sweeter...oh, but that's just my opinion.

 

[hangul99]

Cheating is a fact not an opinion. Making a promise/commitment to one person and breaking it because it will save a marriage. Is bullshit. Again not an opinion just a fact. Drinking and driving is ok? That is cheating the law. Stealing is ok? That is cheating the owner of the business. That is ok? I someone chooses to beat a woman and you are ok with that? It was their choice after all. You can try all you want to make shit taste good. It is still and will always be shit. Cheating on your SO is the new demon so it is ok. We are talking about it so now it is ok. Just like Trump. These are facts and laws not opinions.

Dude, you're all over the map. What does abuse or drinking and driving or any of the other nonsense you mention have anything do with the topic?

Just face it it you like to pontificate.

I'll you get the last word in since it seems to be what you are after.

 

[therealcole]

Dude, you're all over the map. What does abuse or drinking and driving or any of the other nonsense you mention have anything do with the topic?

Just face it it you like to pontificate.

I'll you get the last word in since it seems to be what you are after.

Tell your wife that you are cheating on her and see what happens to your life. Sorry if my analogy is too complicated for you. Your life will be ruined.

 

[therealcole]

What you said doesn't even make sense. Are you saying hangul99 is not entitled to his opinion just because it's a 'fact'.

Here are a couple of facts...women have pussies and men have dicks. I happen to think pussies are sweeter...oh, but that's just my opinion.

Last time I checked people made a promise or signed a contract to be faithful to one another. Fact vs opinion.

 

[hangul99]

Tell your wife that you are cheating on her and see what happens to your life. Sorry if my analogy is too complicated for you. Your life will be ruined.

You shouldn't assume I'm married. Just like i'm not assuming you are an asshat even though all your posts lead us in that direction.

 

[hangul99]

What you said doesn't even make sense. Are you saying hangul99 is not entitled to his opinion just because it's a 'fact'.

Here are a couple of facts...women have pussies and men have dicks. I happen to think pussies are sweeter...oh, but that's just my opinion.

The clearest "fact" is that we are wasting too much time on Mr. Pompous.

Happy Hobbying KL.

 

[therealcole]

The clearest "fact" is that we are wasting too much time on Mr. Pompous.

Happy Hobbying KL.

And yet you still respond. This is too easy. lol

 

[Hangdai]

Tell your wife that you are cheating on her and see what happens to your life. Sorry if my analogy is too complicated for you. Your life will be ruined.

Sometimes the cheating leads to a new beginning for 2 people who should no longer be together. It can actually lead to happiness and freedom, a new beginning to a better life, Just saying.

 

[OG_funguy]

Everybody's situation is different. I'm pretty sure some of these guys who claim they would never ever stray haven't been married for 25+ years with the same woman before so how can they say with '100%' certainty what might happen under a different set of circumstances. For example, what happens if the SO can't or doesn't want sex anymore, yet divorce is not really an option for whatever reason. Are you still going to remain faithful and not have sex for the rest of your life?

 

[Dongo]

Tell your wife that you are cheating on her and see what happens to your life. Sorry if my analogy is too complicated for you. Your life will be ruined.

So it is fear and the threat of losing half your shit that is keeping your moral compass pointed. Sounds as ruthless and demonic as the "religious beliefs" that you pretend is the reason for monogamy.

 

[therealcole]

So it is fear and the threat of losing half your shit that is keeping your moral compass pointed. Sounds as ruthless and demonic as the "religious beliefs" that you pretend is the reason for monogamy.

I have nothing to fear. When my time is up then it is up. My moral compass is based on how I treat others and how I would want to be treated by others. I am not religious but the society in which I live in is religious based. Therefore I try to follow the rules of that society. To knowingly cheat on your SO and think that it is ok and to continue to do it is wrong. If it was ok then tell her what you are doing. You will not tell her because it is wrong on all levels and the consequences are to great for your lifestyle.
Monogamy is based on religion. If you study the history of democracy and of civilization (obviously you have not) you will see that religion goes hand in hand with the morals and rules of law that exist now. The study of most religions shows that the way that one is supposed to live life is written for all to read and follow. What calendar are you using now? It is based on a religion. When you take an oath for whatever reason what is it based on? A religion. Abrahamic religions all have the same core values. In Hinduism the goal of Dharma is based on ethics or righteousness. These 4 religions represent over 2 thirds of the worlds population. To ignore the influence of religion in the development of society, the morals, standards and laws is foolish.

 

[OG_funguy]

Monogamy is based on religion. If you study the history of democracy and of civilization (obviously you have not) you will see that religion goes hand in hand with the morals and rules of law that exist now. The study of most religions shows that the way that one is supposed to live life is written for all to read and follow. What calendar are you using now? It is based on a religion. When you take an oath for whatever reason what is it based on? A religion. Abrahamic religions all have the same core values. In Hinduism the goal of Dharma is based on ethics or righteousness. These 4 religions represent over 2 thirds of the worlds population. To ignore the influence of religion in the development of society, the morals, standards and laws is foolish.

So you've never broken the law in your whole life?

 

[therealcole]

So it is fear and the threat of losing half your shit that is keeping your moral compass pointed. Sounds as ruthless and demonic as the "religious beliefs" that you pretend is the reason for monogamy.

So you've never broken the law in your whole life?

I have broken many laws and have paid the price for it almost every time. I continue to break laws and I suppose I will until the day that I die. I am human but when I fuck up I own it. I have never cheated on a SO which is what this topic is based on.

 

[therealcole]

Sometimes the cheating leads to a new beginning for 2 people who should no longer be together. It can actually lead to happiness and freedom, a new beginning to a better life, Just saying.

I agree with that but it would be better to end the relationship first. If you cheat then the relationship is not worth saving. There are reasons for cheating and none of then are altruistic. The reasons are all selfish.

 

[OG_funguy]

I have broken many laws and have paid the price for it almost every time. I continue to break laws and I suppose I will until the day that I die. I am human but when I fuck up I own it. I have never cheated on a SO which is what this topic is based on.

Ok, so let me get this straight...it's ok to break the law but not cheat? You claim you break the law because you are 'human' after all but continue to disparage those who have strayed...

Yes, this topic is about fornication and not law but you keep bringing up religion as the ideology for both morals and law. Funny how you adhere to one but not the other.

Listen man, I'm not here to rain on your parade. It's great that you have the morals and willpower not to cheat when you are with someone. But just like how you break the law, some guys end up straying...because we're all human after all. I'm not saying cheating or breaking the law are okay (obviously, they aren't) but shit happens in life and everybody's dealt with different circumstances.

 

[therealcole]

Ok, so let me get this straight...it's ok to break the law but not cheat? You claim you break the law because you are 'human' after all but continue to disparage those who have strayed...

Yes, this topic is about fornication and not law but you keep bringing up religion as the ideology for both morals and law. Funny how you adhere to one but not the other.

Listen man, I'm not here to rain on your parade. It's great that you have the morals and willpower not to cheat when you are with someone. But just like how you break the law, some guys end up straying...because we're all human after all. I'm not saying cheating or breaking the law are okay (obviously, they aren't) but shit happens in life and everybody's dealt with different circumstances.

I never said it was good to do either. Again you need to read the whole post. "To knowingly cheat on your SO and think that it is ok and to continue to do it is wrong. If it was ok then tell her what you are doing. You will not tell her because it is wrong on all levels and the consequences are to great for your lifestyle. "

I also wrote:
"I have broken many laws and have paid the price for it almost every time. I continue to break laws and I suppose I will until the day that I die."
If you notice that I have paid the price almost every time. The same can not be said for people who continue to cheat.

When people come here to brag that they cheat and admit that they cheat then they are fair game. NO ONE asked them to tell us that they are cheating. All people need to do is talk about the experiences with the girls. As you have said that is what this forum is for and not to tell us how much you hate your SO.

 

[OG_funguy]

I never said it was good to do either. Again you need to read the whole post. "To knowingly cheat on your SO and think that it is ok and to continue to do it is wrong. If it was ok then tell her what you are doing. You will not tell her because it is wrong on all levels and the consequences are to great for your lifestyle. "

I also wrote:
"I have broken many laws and have paid the price for it almost every time. I continue to break laws and I suppose I will until the day that I die."
If you notice that I have paid the price almost every time. The same can not be said for people who continue to cheat.

When people come here to brag that they cheat and admit that they cheat then they are fair game. NO ONE asked them to tell us that they are cheating. All people need to do is talk about the experiences with the girls. As you have said that is what this forum is for and not to tell us how much you hate your SO.

Guys know cheating is not right but aren't about to tell their SO's. Just like you know breaking the law is wrong but I'm pretty sure you don't tell the police when you do it. You've paid the price but more than likely because you were caught.

Having said this, you raise some good points at the end of your post.