Sugar baby

[doughmixer]

Curious to see if anyone here had sugar baby experience?
I had one for couple of months with a student.
Just ran out of money to continue lol but it was the best experience I have ever had.

 

[Sector7g]

I would think the money some guys spent on massages may be better put to use on a sugar baby.



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[MrJoe]

Sugar babies are fun for sure. It cost more and much more personal time then massages. You may be able to get the same service from a massage but it would probably take a while. With sugar babies normally it’s up front. A lot less time of fumbling around and hoping it turns into what you want.
From my experience anyways.

 

[m694ever]

I would think the money some guys spent on massages may be better put to use on a sugar baby.

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if your into “supporting local“ there would be the opportunity to help a hot blonde through school for sure.

 

[townaboutman]

I’ve had a few excellent experiences with SB. Maybe the only downside is the potential for one or both to become emotionally attached. It’s not entirely a bad thing but it can get tricky. I used to tell myself that I was polyamorous and I’m sure it’s possible but it can definitely get complicated. Generally speaking and in my experience, you can find once a week SB’s for $800-$1000/month. Finding one that’s willing to be exclusive for that amount is likely more rare.

 

[Bob the Knob]

I have had a few lovely sugar baby adventures. With most cases all restrictions are gone as money paid deletes most if not all restrictions. But be prepared to spend a significant amount of money compared to regular escort adventures.

If you can afford it do it at least once.

 

[Qster]

I have had two SBs in my lifetime and probably never again. My first SB was a UofA student, I wasn't looking but she was introduced to me as she was the roommate of a friend's SB. The girls needed help with rent, so my end of the bargain is to pay my SB's half of the rent plus a gift here or there. For that, I get to stay over one night a week, no weekends or exam nights. The girls like their Whyte Ave clubs, no saying hi outside of the apartment. That ended after a few months when both students returned home for summer, not sure if they returned next term and they never reached out.

Then through a website, I met a UofC grad student. This one went a little further, after a couple of months, it became an exclusive relationship; went for bloodtests together, and we celebrated the beginning of our restrictions free relationship in Banff. A lot less structured, evening dates, weekends in the mountains, she even insists on holding hands in public. It was a lot more expensive than the first one, not sure if it is worth it but was nice while it lasted. I knew she was close to graduating as she told me she was defending her thesis, then one day, she simply "disappeared". I did not even get a goodbye, she simply stopped returning texts. After that, I am not sure I will never do the SB thing again.

A good SB is a lot of investment, both $$$$ and emotions.

 

[edmonpo]

yes you can have a good time, but SB is a lot of investment, both $$ and broken heart

 

[doughmixer]

Mine was with a single mom student. She was desperate for finances since her bf screwed her over badly. I supported her as much I could but she was like a sugar wife. She would cook for me lol. And insane in bed, nothing off limits.

 

[Mebad2018]

I have had two SBs in my lifetime and probably never again. My first SB was a UofA student, I wasn't looking but she was introduced to me as she was the roommate of a friend's SB. The girls needed help with rent, so my end of the bargain is to pay my SB's half of the rent plus a gift here or there. For that, I get to stay over one night a week, no weekends or exam nights. The girls like their Whyte Ave clubs, no saying hi outside of the apartment. That ended after a few months when both students returned home for summer, not sure if they returned next term and they never reached out.

Then through a website, I met a UofC grad student. This one went a little further, after a couple of months, it became an exclusive relationship; went for bloodtests together, and we celebrated the beginning of our restrictions free relationship in Banff. A lot less structured, evening dates, weekends in the mountains, she even insists on holding hands in public. It was a lot more expensive than the first one, not sure if it is worth it but was nice while it lasted. I knew she was close to graduating as she told me she was defending her thesis, then one day, she simply "disappeared". I did not even get a goodbye, she simply stopped returning texts. After that, I am not sure I will never do the SB thing again.

A good SB is a lot of investment, both $$$$ and emotions.

My 1 and only sb was a very voluptuous Jamaican girl in her mid 30s . Right off within the first three minutes she turned me off by being too demanding and abrupt. I would go to her place and she never got out of bed . She never dressed up to see me . She wanted 1000 a month and it took three visits to get Layed. She got pleasured a few times before she gave me anything . She texted two or three times a day . The whole lazy lack of gaf about her appearance was a No no for me . It never lasted a month I paid her and ended it. She was pissed and sent me all kinds of texts saying she really had thought I was better and that she deserved better. I don’t like to be treated like an ATM with a set of balls . I give respect and expect it back and have no time for the opposite. I feel bad for you Qster because you deserved better as well. It just seems like a slap in the face like she was just playing all the time she was with you. You obviously did feel something for her. I know that with what we do it is easy to form attachments to those that gives us physical attention. I would be turned off from it too. I know I will never do the sb thing again either .too much potential for the thing to go south on a guy.

 

[Fcktheids]

I have had two SBs in my lifetime and probably never again. My first SB was a UofA student, I wasn't looking but she was introduced to me as she was the roommate of a friend's SB. The girls needed help with rent, so my end of the bargain is to pay my SB's half of the rent plus a gift here or there. For that, I get to stay over one night a week, no weekends or exam nights. The girls like their Whyte Ave clubs, no saying hi outside of the apartment. That ended after a few months when both students returned home for summer, not sure if they returned next term and they never reached out.

Then through a website, I met a UofC grad student. This one went a little further, after a couple of months, it became an exclusive relationship; went for bloodtests together, and we celebrated the beginning of our restrictions free relationship in Banff. A lot less structured, evening dates, weekends in the mountains, she even insists on holding hands in public. It was a lot more expensive than the first one, not sure if it is worth it but was nice while it lasted. I knew she was close to graduating as she told me she was defending her thesis, then one day, she simply "disappeared". I did not even get a goodbye, she simply stopped returning texts. After that, I am not sure I will never do the SB thing again.

A good SB is a lot of investment, both $$$$ and emotions.

 

[Fcktheids]

My 1 and only sb was a very voluptuous Jamaican girl in her mid 30s . Right off within the first three minutes she turned me off by being too demanding and abrupt. I would go to her place and she never got out of bed . She never dressed up to see me . She wanted 1000 a month and it took three visits to get Layed. She got pleasured a few times before she gave me anything . She texted two or three times a day . The whole lazy lack of gaf about her appearance was a No no for me . It never lasted a month I paid her and ended it. She was pissed and sent me all kinds of texts saying she really had thought I was better and that she deserved better. I don’t like to be treated like an ATM with a set of balls . I give respect and expect it back and have no time for the opposite. I feel bad for you Qster because you deserved better as well. It just seems like a slap in the face like she was just playing all the time she was with you. You obviously did feel something for her. I know that with what we do it is easy to form attachments to those that gives us physical attention. I would be turned off from it too. I know I will never do the sb thing again either .too much potential for the thing to go south on a guy.

I would’ve walked out and blocked her number permanently after those first 3 min

 

[luckydog]

Three SBs in my history.

A latino single mom, short, curvy, stacked and no restrictions - She wanted 1000 min per month but she gave me 10 hours ofher time which was 8 or so visits a month. She was cute, in the health care profession, and loved facials, CIM, anal more than reg, and was often in the mood for spending quite a bit of time rimming me. Lasted a year untli she took hubby back

Italian woman who was in the massage trade though she was full service. She was kinky as hell, into being dominated, rimming, rough play, and having all kinds of sordid stuff written on her body. Perhaps a quasi SB arrangement. Saw her 4 to 8 times a month but she never named a price. She was however satisfied with what I provided. Maybe 8 months and then she fell in love with a guy and moved away.

About 5 years ago - Former live in partner of 7years - we reconnected a couple ofyears later and she became my SB. Expensive woman but she did a whole lot more than when we were living together, a number of things she had always said never in my lifetime to. CIM, COF, Anal, were among her changes of mind. Big tits, firm apple ass, always wet and shaved pussy and a mouth to die for. A couple of times we went to a bar and she sat with her pussy exposed for all the men there and unbuttoned her top so that a bit of her aerola showed. Men turned their chairs around to watchher. Everyone knew what was happening.

Lasted 2 years. I spent a lot more than I should have but no regrets really

 

[Fcktheids]

Three SBs in my history.

A latino single mom, short, curvy, stacked and no restrictions - She wanted 1000 min per month but she gave me 10 hours ofher time which was 8 or so visits a month. She was cute, in the health care profession, and loved facials, CIM, anal more than reg, and was often in the mood for spending quite a bit of time rimming me. Lasted a year untli she took hubby back

Italian woman who was in the massage trade though she was full service. She was kinky as hell, into being dominated, rimming, rough play, and having all kinds of sordid stuff written on her body. Perhaps a quasi SB arrangement. Saw her 4 to 8 times a month but she never named a price. She was however satisfied with what I provided. Maybe 8 months and then she fell in love with a guy and moved away.

About 5 years ago - Former live in partner of 7years - we reconnected a couple ofyears later and she became my SB. Expensive woman but she did a whole lot more than when we were living together, a number of things she had always said never in my lifetime to. CIM, COF, Anal, were among her changes of mind. Big tits, firm apple ass, always wet and shaved pussy and a mouth to die for. A couple of times we went to a bar and she sat with her pussy exposed for all the men there and unbuttoned her top so that a bit of her aerola showed. Men turned their chairs around to watchher. Everyone knew what was happening.

Lasted 2 years. I spent a lot more than I should have but no regrets really

I want the Latino mom

 

[michael garrett]

I want the Latino mom

i am trying the sugar baby site off of leolist..has anyone had any experiences with them...??

 

[m694ever]

i am trying the sugar baby site off of leolist..has anyone had any experiences with them...??

If you venture into Leolist or any of those sites its best to get either a burner phone of an app. Pay cash, and keep your identity sheltered. There’s lots of predators out there.

 

[HandsyMan]

I have recently dipped my toes into the Ashley Madison pool. I had one on the line but she suddenly stopped messaging back. Got another one and it sometimes seems too good to be true. Trying to be careful but if you want anything you have to take a risk eventually. She asked for a photo and when I asked for hers I never got a complete one. Then she sent me her mobile number and asked for me to message her directly. I don't have a burner phone but I suppose I could get one. Hard to do this stuff when the world has gone mostly cashless

 

[Yegboy]

I have recently dipped my toes into the Ashley Madison pool. I had one on the line but she suddenly stopped messaging back. Got another one and it sometimes seems too good to be true. Trying to be careful but if you want anything you have to take a risk eventually. She asked for a photo and when I asked for hers I never got a complete one. Then she sent me her mobile number and asked for me to message her directly. I don't have a burner phone but I suppose I could get one. Hard to do this stuff when the world has gone mostly cashless

You can get a burner phone app like Textme. It's free as long as you use it one every week.

 

[doughmixer]

Your best is register at seeking arrangements. Paid membership but worth it.

 

[Qster]

I used both Seeking Arrangements and Secret Benefits. There is no free lunch, you have to pay for the sites to be of any use to you and they are not cheap. I don't know if it happens to everyone, considering that I am one ugly sob (muscular but ugly), I still get well in excess of 100 messages a week. I still get way too many messages from girls, and I am not paying the sites anymore. Frankly, I think the girls only look at one thing, your income and networth. There is no shortage of candidates on those sites, just need time and patience to sift though the garbages.

After my first SB, it took me months to find #2, not exact science but I group the candidates I spoke with in to 4 groups.
- 40% fulltime or parttime escorts looking for above market rate for short time fun, I was not interested in paying $1,000+ for one night stands no matter how pretty the girl is. If the lady's profile picture looks like an escort's picture, she probably is an escort.
- 40% scammers, in this group, I include those girls who wants you to pay for the privilege to go shopping and buy her things with zero/nothing in return; "Hey, lets meet at WEM, we will have dinner at ..., we go shopping, then we see where things go". I have heard too many stories about girls ditching you as soon as they got their fancy meals and expensive gifts.
- 15% who are clueless and unsure what they really want. They don't know why they are doing this, they don't know if they want to do this with you. Some people loves this group but I avoid them, I have too many real life problems, don't need to act like a psychiatrist on my spare time. This category also include those who are "looking for mentors" and honestly stating "NO SEX" in their messages. The younger they are, the more likely they are in this group.
- 5% knows that they want and are truly looking for a long term arrangements.

Just my personal thing, I asked to meet them for coffee first: 1. the escorts don't have time for coffees, they want $300 an hour, 2. the scammers will want to go shopping asap or for you to wire a deposit or a copy of your id for safety reasons..., 3. the clueless ones will spend an hour with you at coffee waffling about whether she should go through with it or not, 4. the true SBs will take the time to talk through various possible scenarios over the next few months/years.

That was a few years ago, things probably changed by now but my buddy did joke that the escort/scammer percentage is higher than ever.