New to this, have some questions

[Deleted member 66315]

Well, you can still eat ice cream and workout.

But also you're just going to die alone if you don't do something. Is that what your life is worth? Nothing? I'm guessing it's worth more than that. Your parent's didn't raise a kid, invest all this time and love just for you to waste it away by being a fucking fat piece of shit who bangs escorts.

You sound depressed. Go talk to your doctor, get on some meds and see if you can pull yourself out of this rut.

 

[snoopdoggie]

Yea, study the market price and if something sounds too good to be true, chances are it's not true....

70 for an hour? That's pretty low even for half an hour. I wouldn't complain if I'm getting a bargain, but this is way too good to be true when everyone else is charging around 200 an hour.

 

[goodtogo1962]

Go to a reputable sp, better chance of getting what you paid for.

 

[xtc27]

70 for an hour? That's pretty low even for half an hour. I wouldn't complain if I'm getting a bargain, but this is way to good to be true when everyone else is charging around 200 an hour.

70hh... @ least it is now...

Quite a few 80hh on LL, & a few 60hh... so it’s not crazy...

She’s NMCOT... but high volume= gd way 2 make $$$ fast... get some regs, then boost $$$....

She could b ok fuck... no reputation yet... prefer girls w reviews... rather pay xtra & get better service...

 

[snoopdoggie]

70hh... @ least it is now...

Quite a few 80hh on LL, & a few 60hh... so it’s not crazy...

She’s NMCOT... but high volume= gd way 2 make $$$ fast... get some regs, then boost $$$....

She could b ok fuck... no reputation yet... prefer girls w reviews... rather pay xtra & get better service...

Yeah I guess the 70 per hour was a typo. I did make a visit about 3 years ago, in run down apartment above a plaza in Etobicoke for 60 hh. But the ladies were not very desirable. Fake tits were the obsolete cheap type which were rock hard. But her pussy still felt pretty good.

 

[Dotanuki]

Well I am far from a ＂knuck dragger＇ To be frank some questions are out of bounds like one＇s home status.

Aside of that， this game has simple rules that when followed will be rewarding on both sides. Its when either party pushes the boundary past the line you have issues. Agression，being rude， haggling over price （as opposed to negotiation）and pushing for more that what is being provided. These things are not good and will give you a bad rep. This community is SMALL and they do speak to each other. Couple 100 a week won kill anyone.

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[xtc27]

Ha ha ha. good words and advice as always.. dude seems to be getting a little too nosy for my liking but that may be on me and maybe I'm not reading things proper?
personally asking any member for private info on a public forum is not a good thing in my books! but I'm a knuckledragger so what do I know?
anyway, back to the girls: like you say, treat them well.. even when she slammed the door on me and wouldn't let me in, I stayed the course, apologized and learned a few lessons!
ha ha ha, charm!! OMG I ooze charm.. got charm by the boatloads!! I'm sexy and I know it!! ha ha ha, just kidding, but I do try and make sure the mpa remembers me, at least most mpa's.. and the fact that some of these girls do share very private things about themselves, I don't violate their trust.. just like anyone I know or meet in life!
like you said, be normal and nice with a little spice.. she will reward you!

all the best to everyone!

Agree, some question = Out o Bounds...

...when ball is out o bounds... you don't need to play it! So I just stepped on past that, answered what I wanted to...

..get paid the same either way!!!

Q1= Yeah, this one=

Q2 & 3= how do u afford this hobby? = I can answer... but ultimately, all hobbies cost $$$, up 2u how much... baseball tix= several fucks a month, beer & coffee= 1.5 fucks, ttc= 1 fuck... turn all yr budget into fucks, & pretty e-z 2 budget... oh, conversion to HJ or BS pretty e-z, 2....

...then a buncha questions w/o #'s... like won't yr gf/wife give u a blowjob? Do Cowgirl? Whatever... dumb question. Whether she will or not... whether we have them or not... what difference?

Many dudes can get it free... .... including higher mileage stuff... but well, free = only about $$$... nothing ever free...

... &, WTF, still fun 2b with Emily & Lily @ eSpa, Lucy & Coco @ SL, Mei @ Flirt.... variety of awesome pretty girls always amazing!

U think dudes w pretty sexually frisky wives nvr have mistresses... ?

 

[luvnewpussy]

No one's answered his question.

First and foremost don't go to leolist .
You will have big chance of it flopping.
Have a shit session and be turned off.
Don't start there .

Yes we come from all backgrounds. Its pussy for God's sake. Who doesn't like a nice wet pussy on a hot chick with a great body and attractive face. I have spent 2k per month at my peak. Lost track and now it's a lifestyle that I manage .its my driver to Just make more money I'm beyond hobbying..lol

Back to your post..if you want cuddling and older girls(30+) Go to a escort agency..like top drawer or discreet or hot pink. Look at pics read reviews on terb and here to see what U like to Experience

Book 1hr ..plenty of time to chill out and get the butterflies going. Endorphins turning etc.

Now the disclaimer:
You will get addicted. You have to set a play budget . $150 per month is not realistic for someone starting out. Blow a whole bunch until you get the hang of it. Seriously your young. The best thing you can do is find out what you like.

Find out the type of girls your like and kind of scenarios you want and then adjust your budget accordingly. Call it a research phase

Sayng you like white girls is just a start
Some are gfe, some pse, some take control, some are submissive, some are slim some are bbw , some have tight pussys some have enhanced tits..etc..etc..the list goes on.

Until you find out what U like you will forever search and blow more money.
Once you narrow down your kind of Experience you spend your budget there.
Treat the girls respectfully, there whores but repect them. A small venture goes a long way . Don't fall in love. Save that for the cilivan girls.

This will give you confidence when the world opens back up. Yes you will still pay for seeing girls even after you find someone. That's normal you just reduce the time and money spent on these awesome whores and spend some on your SO.

That's the reality of this hobby.
Paying for pussy skips all the hassles ..its like jumping the line... A fast pass.
Keep both lives separated, don't mix the 2 . Keep your stuff private from the girls. And create a hobbying persona just like the girls do. When you enter they room your "that guy" when you leave your " this guy" . That's how you will remain safe and sane.

 

[xtc27]

No one's answered his question.

First and foremost don't go to leolist .
You will have big chance of it flopping.
Have a shit session and be turned off.
Don't start there .

Yes we come from all backgrounds. Its pussy for God's sake. Who doesn't like a nice wet pussy on a hot chick with a great body and attractive face. I have spent 2k per month at my peak. Lost track and now it's a lifestyle that I manage .its my driver to Just make more money I'm beyond hobbying..lol

Back to your post..if you want cuddling and older girls(30+) Go to a escort agency..like top drawer or discreet or hot pink. Look at pics read reviews on terb and here to see what U like to Experience

Book 1hr ..plenty of time to chill out and get the butterflies going. Endorphins turning etc.

Now the disclaimer:
You will get addicted. You have to set a play budget . $150 per month is not realistic for someone starting out. Blow a whole bunch until you get the hang of it. Seriously your young. The best thing you can do is find out what you like.

Find out the type of girls your like and kind of scenarios you want and then adjust your budget accordingly. Call it a research phase

Sayng you like white girls is just a start
Some are gfe, some pse, some take control, some are submissive, some are slim some are bbw , some have tight pussys some have enhanced tits..etc..etc..the list goes on.

Until you find out what U like you will forever search and blow more money.
Once you narrow down your kind of Experience you spend your budget there.
Treat the girls respectfully, there whores but repect them. A small venture goes a long way . Don't fall in love. Save that for the cilivan girls.

This will give you confidence when the world opens back up. Yes you will still pay for seeing girls even after you find someone. That's normal you just reduce the time and money spent on these awesome whores and spend some on your SO.

That's the reality of this hobby.
Paying for pussy skips all the hassles ..its like jumping the line... A fast pass.
Keep both lives separated, don't mix the 2 . Keep your stuff private from the girls. And create a hobbying persona just like the girls do. When you enter they room your "that guy" when you leave your " this guy" . That's how you will remain safe and sane.

... weird thing is... since u don’t need relationship to get sex anymore... u chill out, relax, way more cool...

..& better relationships & sex follows... with same girls u got nowhere b4.. .

Ofc, u gotta keep it together... if u get addicted or fall in luv... not gd...

 

[Squigg]

I am hooked in this hobby. First experience I was 24. Started off a curiosity and didn’t know about extras till I became single and started checking out spas. Then website like this a terb helps find which places to go and share experiences. I’m in my 40’s now and I get bored easily when dating. I blame it on this hobby. It’s convenient and can see many different MPA, it’s fun but it changes my view on relationship (or something meaningful). I tried quitting but to get me over the motivation hump (lack thereof and looking for excitement) this gives me the thrill. I stopped going to SP since the last scary moment of feeling getting busted. I say don’t hobby as much, then again, do what’s best for you. I stopped counting how much I spend, last sept and leading to the second lockdown; I’ve gone every two weeks at premier spas. So it’s $150 plus tips. So it’s $250 every two weeks for two months stretch. And now I’m fighting the urge lol

don’t do it, save money, find a good friend. Stay young!

 

[lost-explorer]

No one's answered his question.

First and foremost don't go to leolist .
You will have big chance of it flopping.
Have a shit session and be turned off.
Don't start there .

Yes we come from all backgrounds. Its pussy for God's sake. Who doesn't like a nice wet pussy on a hot chick with a great body and attractive face. I have spent 2k per month at my peak. Lost track and now it's a lifestyle that I manage .its my driver to Just make more money I'm beyond hobbying..lol

Back to your post..if you want cuddling and older girls(30+) Go to a escort agency..like top drawer or discreet or hot pink. Look at pics read reviews on terb and here to see what U like to Experience

Book 1hr ..plenty of time to chill out and get the butterflies going. Endorphins turning etc.

Now the disclaimer:
You will get addicted. You have to set a play budget . $150 per month is not realistic for someone starting out. Blow a whole bunch until you get the hang of it. Seriously your young. The best thing you can do is find out what you like.

Find out the type of girls your like and kind of scenarios you want and then adjust your budget accordingly. Call it a research phase

Sayng you like white girls is just a start
Some are gfe, some pse, some take control, some are submissive, some are slim some are bbw , some have tight pussys some have enhanced tits..etc..etc..the list goes on.

Until you find out what U like you will forever search and blow more money.
Once you narrow down your kind of Experience you spend your budget there.
Treat the girls respectfully, there whores but repect them. A small venture goes a long way . Don't fall in love. Save that for the cilivan girls.

This will give you confidence when the world opens back up. Yes you will still pay for seeing girls even after you find someone. That's normal you just reduce the time and money spent on these awesome whores and spend some on your SO.

That's the reality of this hobby.
Paying for pussy skips all the hassles ..its like jumping the line... A fast pass.
Keep both lives separated, don't mix the 2 . Keep your stuff private from the girls. And create a hobbying persona just like the girls do. When you enter they room your "that guy" when you leave your " this guy" . That's how you will remain safe and sane.

Goddamn, this is pretty informative. Thank you for this. I really appreciate it.

Haven't posted in those few days because I got busy with work and was jacking off like crazy, so the sex-drive was really low. Now I'm back to wanting some sort of interaction with women.

I get what the other guys are saying; I can hit the gym and get jacked to increase my chances of finding a gf. But still, that will take at least 6-7 months to even get basic musculature. Am I supposed to stay bored until then? I have no problem with paying for some girls right now while continuing to "improve myself" and then when the time is right I'll head out into the world and get a real girlfriend aka free pussy.