Poll Preferred Sex Dynamic

[Phil Rockford]

I don't think of it as her bossing me. I think of it as her using me to get off her rocks. Usually only happens in my experience if she's really into you

Well, that’s you.

For me, I find that when the girl is in charge, it is not gratifying.

Of course, if she’s ASKING me what I like, then doing it, yes, that is fun. But then I’m in charge again.

 

[eyeswideshut]

Well, that’s you.

For me, I find that when the girl is in charge, it is not gratifying.

Of course, if she’s ASKING me what I like, then doing it, yes, that is fun. But then I’m in charge again.

No shit Sherlock. That's why I said 'I'

Kinky & she is the boss are both zero.

Unlikely.

Unlikely for you maybe but not for me

 

[Phil Rockford]

No shit Sherlock. That's why I said 'I'


Unlikely for you maybe but not for me

Likewise, Watson!

If you just posted your reply, then naturally it applies to you.

However, you posed it as a reply to me, thus I addressed it.

Letting a woman be the boss very frequently does not lead to my sexual satisfaction. It may promote relationship goals, but in the context of transactional sex, it makes little sense to me.

Those guys who complain about jackhammer handjibs are experiencing woman as boss.

Even in relationships, women find gratification also in gratifying the man. Even more so in the case of those being paid.

Guide them. Have more fun.

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Definitely like to be in control. Or she'll be the one in control (to start off foreplay) and when she revs my engine the tables turn and i'll take over. It helps a bunch if she is the submissive type. I'm more into intimacy because that's what a sexual encounter should be. If there is no chemistry (Idc how how hot or beautiful the person you are having a sexual experience with) the physical encounter won't work.

Sex is like dancing. You find a good dance partner and good things will happen lol

 

[xtc27]

Definitely like to be in control. Or she'll be the one in control (to start off foreplay) and when she revs my engine the tables turn and i'll take over. It helps a bunch if she is the submissive type. I'm more into intimacy because that's what a sexual encounter should be. If there is no chemistry (Idc how how hot or beautiful the person you are having a sexual experience with) the physical encounter won't work.

Sex is like dancing. You find a good dance partner and good things will happen lol

Something cringy about that gif… dancing w a girl showing that much skin, I gotta grab her somehow, not dancing a foot away!

Anyway… it’s just a gif… I get it …

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Something cringy about that gif… dancing w a girl showing that much skin, I gotta grab her somehow, not dancing a foot away!

Anyway… it’s just a gif… I get it …

Yeah, didn't have time prolly due to all that dancin. The other dancing gifs were kinda dark

 

[xtc27]

Yeah, didn't have time prolly due to all that dancin. The other dancing gifs were kinda dark

S’ok.

Sorry if that sounded like criticism. Cool gif. Just my reaction.

 

[Phil Rockford]

Definitely like to be in control. Or she'll be the one in control (to start off foreplay) and when she revs my engine the tables turn and i'll take over. It helps a bunch if she is the submissive type. I'm more into intimacy because that's what a sexual encounter should be. If there is no chemistry (Idc how how hot or beautiful the person you are having a sexual experience with) the physical encounter won't work.

Sex is like dancing. You find a good dance partner and good things will happen lol

I find its a turn on when the girl really likes pleasing me, especially if she has lots of skills for doing that.

 

[eyeswideshut]

Likewise, Watson!

If you just posted your reply, then naturally it applies to you.

However, you posed it as a reply to me, thus I addressed it.

Letting a woman be the boss very frequently does not lead to my sexual satisfaction. It may promote relationship goals, but in the context of transactional sex, it makes little sense to me.

Those guys who complain about jackhammer handjibs are experiencing woman as boss.

Even in relationships, women find gratification also in gratifying the man. Even more so in the case of those being paid.

Guide them. Have more fun.

Sure, if it's a transaction then you should get what you want and nobody want a jackhammer

I was thinking more of non hobby connections. Having someone use you as a personal sex toy can be quite unforgettable

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Sure, if it's a transaction then you should get what you want and nobody want a jackhammer

The word jackhammer would be the perfect name for a movie title lol...

 

[Phil Rockford]

Sure, if it's a transaction then you should get what you want and nobody want a jackhammer

I was thinking more of non hobby connections. Having someone use you as a personal sex toy can be quite unforgettable

Bad experience for me though.

I did everything to make this girl excited and made her cum, really huge O, then she fell asleep before reciprocating.

Last time I let her take charge! I ended up replacing that girlfriend with someone more into pleasing.

 

[eyeswideshut]

Bad experience for me though.

I did everything to make this girl excited and made her cum, really huge O, then she fell asleep before reciprocating.

Last time I let her take charge! I ended up replacing that girlfriend with someone more into pleasing.

Damn yeah that sucks. It's nice when you meet someone that in touch with there sexuality but if there selfish about it then cutting them loose was the right move

 

[Phil Rockford]

Damn yeah that sucks. It's nice when you meet someone that in touch with there sexuality but if there selfish about it then cutting them loose was the right move

I am cured of letting the girl be boss.

Once I’ve cum, no problem, take the reins.

And if Im up for round 2, hopefully she is still turned on. But I will pound that sleeping girl if she has fallen asleep. If you make them cum, it’s allowed.

Legally its iffy but let me talk to the jury.

 

[superdick]

Almost had my Dick broken and balls squashed by a Bronco Buster.
Well meaning and enthusiastic session but totally a mood killer.
Intimacy and pleasing each other are important aspects of "love making"

but IMHO

human sexuality requires the male to have a moe de CUM of control

 

[eyeswideshut]

Almost had my Dick broken and balls squashed by a Bronco Buster.
Well meaning and enthusiastic session but totally a mood killer.

Been there been done like that too and totally agree. I was just hoping it would end soon

I guess the key is to find someone where you get wild and passionate heat of the moment stuff without them going off the deep end

 

[eyeswideshut]

I am cured of letting the girl be boss.

The more I think about this the more I'm inclined to agree

 

[Flyingfox]

Bad experience for me though.

I did everything to make this girl excited and made her cum, really huge O, then she fell asleep before reciprocating.

An O really makes a girl sleepy. I thought the girl was lying when she told me this for the first time.

The girl normally does not want to cum as she said she will be tired and needs to sleep, affecting her mood or performance in the later sessions. She made me more horny when I saw her facial expression in missionary or CG position. She tried to withhold the cumming and not to moan loudly while she enjoyed the edging and physical reaction to the pounding.

 

[Phil Rockford]

The more I think about this the more I'm inclined to agree

Even CG ‘a perfectly fine. I am still in charge. No way I’m letting the girl get off & sleep!

 

[eyeswideshut]

Even CG ‘a perfectly fine. I am still in charge. No way I’m letting the girl get off & sleep!

Have to admit I really like CG. Probably the best where you can tag-team off of who's doing the work and who's resting. Plus the view is usually amazing and within easy reach

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Have to admit I really like CG. Probably the best where you can tag-team off of who's doing the work and who's resting. Plus the view is usually amazing and within easy reach

I like to start with CG. It takes me a while to cum (old age), and I do not have the energy I once had. Plus I can see her face and play with her tits. I most like it when she finds the angle that she likes so it is a shared experience. A little bit of doggy is good because of the view. And I like to finish in missionary, where I can find the angle that I like best.