Opinion The Elusive Thrill

[Romero001]

I wonder how many of us are ultimately looking for the Shangri La when going for a massage at a semi-legit establishmen. How many really want the FS deal?

Over the last many years, I often went for a massage in the hopes it would lead to FS. It’s the excitement of the chase, the competitiveness in me. I would always go for the happy ending and ask for nude and ultimately FS. It happened a few times with 3 providers, but I spent hundreds of $$ asking and getting turned down. It wasn’t because I am ugly, grossly overweight, or just plain old as I have been told on many occasions I am good looking. I am fit and dress well, I wouldn’t admit I am good looking, as money generally talks, but I would rate myself as average.

I now find myself visiting AMP as they are a FS provider, unfortunately the massage is often no-existent or lacklustre. Curious how many other like minded pooners seek the same thrill.

 

[luvsluvsmassage]

there are knowns, and un-knowns. you will pay a lot if you're favorite part is the un-knowns, as you've been discovering. That isn't ever going to change.

I had a couple of experiences turn into more than expected this year. One was a real connection that turned into FS - not discussed or negotiated, just go with the moment together. Another was a legit rmt who was just really open-minded and our nice connection led to some extras. i also had one I thought would go that way and went very poorly the other way. all this year.

both are things I might have chased after at one point. but no longer. its too expensive. i need to know what i really want and need, and those are things that I can fulfill in the known column. so i'll always keep the door open to looking, hoping, for some unexpected thrill - but i don't think i'll really invest in it.

 

[Romero001]

there are knowns, and un-knowns. you will pay a lot if you're favorite part is the un-knowns, as you've been discovering. That isn't ever going to change.

I had a couple of experiences turn into more than expected this year. One was a real connection that turned into FS - not discussed or negotiated, just go with the moment together. Another was a legit rmt who was just really open-minded and our nice connection led to some extras. i also had one I thought would go that way and went very poorly the other way. all this year.

both are things I might have chased after at one point. but no longer. its too expensive. i need to know what i really want and need, and those are things that I can fulfill in the known column. so i'll always keep the door open to looking, hoping, for some unexpected thrill - but i don't think i'll really invest in it.

lol, yes I agree, I have also lost money on the stock market chasing greed. I no longer invest in seeking the thrill, like you said, let it come naturally. Problem is though, I no longer can afford to go for multiple massages to see if it does come naturally, so I go for the sure thing at AMP.

 

[Wills_willie]

I too invested a lot of money in the pursuit of getting beyond just the HE. A few times it has worked out, which is what kept me searching. Now I just go to the ladies where I know I can get what I'm looking for on any particular day, I can't afford the chase anymore. If I want FS then AMP it is . This site has been a great help. I don't review much anymore as the ladies I see have been extensively reviewed already.

 

[OC64]

I'm the opposite. No interest in finding FS providers

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[Bob the Knob]

I love those special surprises. Over the years (many years) I came across maybe a half dozen ladies that took it all the way. A couple in the first session and the others over time as we got to know each other.

Not sure which was better. It was certainly a high when each session got hotter until there were no restrictions and we just let it develop. Massages became less and less with the ladies as we went straight into pleasuring each other

It cost money for sure

 

[Albertaman]

I like the word 'elusive'. In massage world as well as in the rest of life. When the majority of my buddies would be hot for some girl, usually I wasn't all that interested in that chick. Or when the world was excited about some actress because of looks, usually they did not grab my attention. In the massage world for a couple of decades, I didn't look for FS, but enjoyed deep therapeutic massages, and that occasional connection which leads to reverse massages, body to body slides, and mutual masturbation. If a masseuse offered FS as part of their daily menu, I was usually not interested in seeing them. The elusive connection that led to FS once in a blue moon .. continued to remain elusive.

Then in recent years, something shifted. It's as if having some grey hair resulted in having a few more offers from RMTs. Not talking about dozens here. But one or two new offers about every year. During covid, my activities shifted almost exclusively to home based RMTs. If a woman can't give a great massage, I do not repeat regardless of what else may be available. However if the massage is great, and they are reasonably fit, and there is some mutual connection, I have had some success in turning repeat sessions into sessions that involve mutual therapy and exchanging mutual pleasures including FS. Slightly longer sessions of around 2 hours, but without the exorbitant rates charged by spas and shops. Not yapping about these elusive experiences with names of therapists is clearly part of the equation. Giving them repeat business is also part of the equation. Naturally my visits to conventional massage shops has dropped dramatically.

I remain convinced that some of you have similar 'favourites', and am convinced that more single or divorced RMTs would consider these engagements if they could be sure that clients will respect their privacy 100%.


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[Albertaman]

Adding some information that may be useful for others. Home based does not mean that these therapists all work from their own home. Some of them work in groups of two or more from a house. Some may just rent a room in a house. There are plenty of Asian real estate speculators who are unable to flip homes in current market. So any income from those houses is welcome. Also, some of these therapists, usually Asian, also work in a legit shop, some hours of the week. No hanky panky at these shops. But this is where you might meet them initially. An assessment of mutual potential for special arrangements and trustworthiness occurs at this time. It may all still be elusive but it does happen from time to time, more often than some people think.


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[luvsluvsmassage]

I don't always buy into what you're saying Albertaman, but we've had some talks, and when it comes to paying attention to whats going on, i've read between the lines and taken your advices - the environment, listening to her situation - I realized that some different choices might lead to some different experiences. And wouldn't you know it, its been a year with a few very new and interesting things. so kudos there.

 

[Guy2013]

I too have been fortunate over the years, with a number of providers over time unexpectingly providing BBBJ or FS. In all cases it took time, $$$, and patience. The dollar factor was always mor of an investment over time than additional dollars for extra service. By the time the extras were offered, no funds were discussed. Its rare but it happens

 

[HNG5252]

I'm the opposite. No interest in finding FS providers

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I'm totally onboard with OC64

 

[ObiWanPotato]

I'm like some of you. I throw a lot of money trying to get something extra from the legit or BBBJ from a semi legit. Something about levelling up with a provider that really gets the juices flowing. with the legit make sure you let them take some sort of lead 1st. you don't want to be viewed as a creep or predator. They put up with enough shit day to day.
with the semi legit you can be more open with your wants/needs after you've developed a good relationship just don't be a dick and get mad if YMMV is less than the next guys, their body, their choice.

 

[Rubmegood]

I'm the opposite. No interest in finding FS providers

I'm in the same camp. Limited funds for searching- I limit my funds for searching for a good semi-legit place that gives a good massage and a good finish. If a girl was to strip down and straddle me I don't know how I'd react. If she had a condom, I might go for it but I'm not specifically on the hunt for it!

 

[Albertaman]

Imho, instead of paying 120 to 140 all in for an hour of good massage with a handy, 200 for 2 hours total of good massage plus erotica including FS represents even better value for a client. So an unattached and relatively attractive RMT who can selectively build a part time side business (in more private setting) with a few special services clients (repeating several times a month) can have a more stable earnings profile. It also provides some relief from the hour by hour or half hour by half hour rat race in their regular job at a legit or semi legit operation (where the room fee takes away a fairly large chunk of the incoming cash). They should still keep their jobs at the legit or semi legit shop where they have new walk in clients. This side business is a true win win for the therapist and the client.

Whenever you see a great therapist with added talents burning out at a regular shop from the daily grind, one needs to suggest these ideas... it's up to them to do something about it


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[sleeker]

I’ve been around this place since day 1 but I have no idea which providers you guys are talking about lol. I thought I had a good inventory of everyone but I guess not. Maybe it’s because I don’t see any actual legit RMTs

 

[luvsluvsmassage]

I’ve been around this place since day 1 but I have no idea which providers you guys are talking about lol. I thought I had a good inventory of everyone but I guess not. Maybe it’s because I don’t see any actual legit RMTs

haha. don't worry about it. no one's been naming names.

 

[Snoopy99]

There were some that lead to FS after many visits, and some others that were available right at the first encounters. PSE being the ultimate - ie not just FS.
Although age isn't always a factor, age in general leads to different muscle/skin conditions - therefore younger providers (as in 20+) with just the right amount of baby fat/bubble butt/breasts are just irresistible.
There was one that I desperately wanted to meet again (only had HE) because she met all the criteria. Unfortunately she seemed to work in most places for only a day or two - and has since vanished.
Courtship...

 

[turts]

I love finding the rarity. It’s such a treat. No I don’t go searching. If I want fs I go to an amp or micro. These days I want a semi legit plus different levels of extras. But when you ask for something and the lady goes above and beyond for whatever reason it’s super special! And makes you feel good and come back for more! Doesn’t mean it will happen every time and I don’t expect it, but sometimes it’s your lucky day!

 

[Albertaman]

Some of the Asian ladies, 45+, slim and in great shape may surprise us all. Some much older. Chronological age is meaningless. And a welcoming attitude is another elusive aphrodisiac.


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[Deleted member 94218]

I'm like some of you. I throw a lot of money trying to get something extra from the legit or BBBJ from a semi legit. Something about levelling up with a provider that really gets the juices flowing. with the legit make sure you let them take some sort of lead 1st. you don't want to be viewed as a creep or predator. They put up with enough shit day to day.
with the semi legit you can be more open with your wants/needs after you've developed a good relationship just don't be a dick and get mad if YMMV is less than the next guys, their body, their choice.

I've only had one exp with a MPA where things went very well after about 5 sessions, and it was not related to money but comfort and personality. She worked regular job and did massage/esthetician on side as she was a single mom here alone from south america. I hit it off with her on first massage, because I'm that way respectful and humble, I'much older than her but it was not an issue. I was never draped she was ok with that, about 3rd session she smiled and asked if she could take care of my Rager with a HJ. 4th, 5th and 6th went from rimming to blow me BB and finish with a jerk, to blow me BB and swallow. She was half naked on that last session I knew another session we would have been fucking. She was into me not because of looks or money, maybe she was lonely dunno. She was asked about on here a couple times but no one ever commented on seeing her. Reason I quit abruptly, I could see getting involved with her and that's not in cards. Moral here if there is one, their human, like us, some harder than others, most are full of shit but if yer at this long enough good things come up from time to time, take it for what it is and run with it, or not but remember you only get one crack at this life