Question How to ask for a bbbj?

[sickokyle]

Just curious on what everyone's opinion/moves are to ask for a bbbj.

Several times when I have a session I find that on the flip the girl will already have the condom in hand.

Sometimes its an akward moment when I say "uhh can you do that part without the condom?" They just look at me. In amp they don't know what I mean sometime and think I wanna do it all without the condom and just shake there head and say no.

Any thoughts?

 

[c1000]

Just ask "How much more for coronavirus?"

 

[StallionGuy87]

Go to SP like barbiehouse69 or moonwaiting

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Try Lux Spa, 4718 Yonge St and just ask.

I have not done this with BBBJ, but for FS I just ask as soon as I am in the room before any money is exchanged. If is not available I just leave and move on to the next place. I always have a plan A, B and C. It helps to be in a neighborhood with a lot of MPs, like Sheppard/Birchmount, Yonge/Wellesley, Yonge/Sheppard. Queen Spa, Spa 26 and Spa One are right next to each over. The first few times you ask will be uncomfortable, but you will quickly get used to being direct.

 

[Pay2Play]

Just curious on what everyone's opinion/moves are to ask for a bbbj.

Several times when I have a session I find that on the flip the girl will already have the condom in hand.

Sometimes its an akward moment when I say "uhh can you do that part without the condom?" They just look at me. In amp they don't know what I mean sometime and think I wanna do it all without the condom and just shake there head and say no.

Any thoughts?

Once they pull out the condom just say no. If they do BBBJ then they will proceed.

 

[xtc27]

Just curious on what everyone's opinion/moves are to ask for a bbbj.

Several times when I have a session I find that on the flip the girl will already have the condom in hand.

Sometimes its an akward moment when I say "uhh can you do that part without the condom?" They just look at me. In amp they don't know what I mean sometime and think I wanna do it all without the condom and just shake there head and say no.

Any thoughts?

...they know what u mean... be more insistent... 'It doesn't feel good... it doesn't work for me'
... 2b REALLY REALLY sure, read reviews here b4 u pick girl... but if u=walking in... ask b4 u go in room... lots easier 2 negotiate w/ clothes on, door nearby...

...next step is up 2u ... offer another $20, may do the trick... condoms taste nasty anyway & bbbj = faster cum & out-da-door...
. ...or you can be ready 2 walk... cheaper gals, older milfs, that will work, 2...

...if CFS is next step anyways, cbj likely.... but u can still spin 'makes me cum faster' angle...

Do NOT buy that they don't know what you want!

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...not sure if blowjob or bbbj translates properly, so say "fellatio without condom"

...extras are 45 million times more likely (apprx) if u could become regular customer... tell them spa is very convenient locatn, you looking for weekly place, she's yr kinda gals, yadda yadda yadda...

 

[squirrelhunter1]

Once they pull out the condom just say no. If they do BBBJ then they will proceed.

It amazes me how many of you here are willing to participate in bareback anything. What is so appealing that you would risk having herpes(lifelong) or any STI. Also if your with a significant other this would likely doom the relationship , while your so very much having to hide seeing a spa girl. Never mind the quality of a girl that would want to expose herself to any diseases an unknown partner may have and accept anything she does bareback. I just do not understand this risk . It's the same for DATY without a dental dam. It only takes once to change your life forever. And dont give me the well they are tested frequently bullshit. One exposure to one partner...that's all it takes, the guy before you maybe...please tell me why you like this Russian roulette.

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[Pay2Play]

It amazes me how many of you here are willing to participate in bareback anything. What is so appealing that you would risk having herpes(lifelong) or any STI. Also if your with a significant other this would likely doom the relationship , while your so very much having to hide seeing a spa girl. Never mind the quality of a girl that would want to expose herself to any diseases an unknown partner may have and accept anything she does bareback. I just do not understand this risk . It's the same for DATY without a dental dam. It only takes once to change your life forever. And dont give me the well they are tested frequently bullshit. One exposure to one partner...that's all it takes, the guy before you maybe...please tell me why you like this Russian roulette.

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The other members told me it’s safe. I believe everything I read on the internet and my favourite game is Asian roulette.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

It amazes me how many of you here are willing to participate in bareback anything. What is so appealing that you would risk having herpes(lifelong) or any STI. Also if your with a significant other this would likely doom the relationship , while your so very much having to hide seeing a spa girl. Never mind the quality of a girl that would want to expose herself to any diseases an unknown partner may have and accept anything she does bareback. I just do not understand this risk . It's the same for DATY without a dental dam. It only takes once to change your life forever. And dont give me the well they are tested frequently bullshit. One exposure to one partner...that's all it takes, the guy before you maybe...please tell me why you like this Russian roulette.

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Nice to see you posting again. If I were putting a partner at risk I would not be a hobbyist (after menopause my wife lost all interest in sex). To be a hobbyist is to take risks. The trouble is that condoms and dental dams suck! Some men are okay with them, but for me their is a significant loss of sensation. I take a chance with BBBJ and DATY, but do not do BBFS. Others are more risk averse, or more daring. How about your partner? Does he use dental dams?

 

[sy barite]

It's kind a funny no? Sex without a condom feels marginally better, but oral without a condom feels WAY better. Some times life just ain't fair.

 

[WizardofStyle]

It's kind a funny no? Sex without a condom feels marginally better, but oral without a condom feels WAY better. Some times life just ain't fair.

That's an interesting point.

 

[Bdontkillmyvibe]

Take the condom in your hand, then gesture

"sucky sucky no"

"fucky fucky yes"

Hand them an extra $20 too and hope you don't get kicked out

 

[squirrelhunter1]

Nice to see you posting again. If I were putting a partner at risk I would not be a hobbyist (after menopause my wife lost all interest in sex). To be a hobbyist is to take risks. The trouble is that condoms and dental dams suck! Some men are okay with them, but for me their is a significant loss of sensation. I take a chance with BBBJ and DATY, but do not do BBFS. Others are more risk averse, or more daring. How about your partner? Does he use dental dams?

This is not condemnation of the hobby. Various reasons I'm 100 percent ALL for. It's the bareback anything with random girls. And hobbyists dont just see one girl for all the way through the hobby. That's not the fun of it is it. I cant imagine anything sensation dimming etcc that is worth the chance of getting something life changing for yourself and another. In a long term relationship with one partner there is no need for a dental dam so no is the answer to your question. These girls are young, why the hell would they want to risk doing it and having say herpes for the next 60 years of their life. Its just insane. We are taught to be safe, have safe sex, and those who are likely having the most frequent sex with obviously multiple partners throw it all away for a 10 second orgasm. It may sound lame but it's a game changer for some. 1 in 8 people have herpes. I just personally dont understand maybe because I dont have a dick. I'm not naive to know it feels better bareback for guys but I cant comprehend why in this Industry guys and girls are willing to risk disease. That's all.

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[Hangdai]

I’ve never asked specifically for one.

If they provide it, it’s a nice surprise and if they are actually good at it, it might become the reason to visit them,
otherwise,
girls that do cbj are usually not big on BJ’s anyways, it’s just part of the routine to get to the sex part of the visit.

I’ve only had 2 ladies that provided such a great cbj that I allowed them to finish me off, otherwise, I’d rather move the session along and save them the indignity of sucking on latex (yuck!).

If I really want a bbbj, I’ll go to known providers of such service (which always include CIM).

 

[Bigusdickus]

They know what the game is so just tell them no rubber ,not like you are the first dick she ever Sucked.

 

[Hangdai]

It's kind a funny no? Sex without a condom feels marginally better, but oral without a condom feels WAY better. Some times life just ain't fair.

I think most guys would say the other way around is WAAAAY better.

 

[Ursus]

If you have to ask how to ask for a BBBJ, you shouldnt be asking.

I have never been to a spa where I wasnt offered FS.

And I am ugly, balding, skinny and have a small penis. Plus, I look poor too.

If I can get a full menu, anyone can.

 

[Ursus]

Hangdai,

Could you change your avatar? I am getting tired of looking at that girl with the ultra flat chest. Its not sexy.

 

[Hangdai]

Hangdai,

Could you change your avatar? I am getting tired of looking at that girl with the ultra flat chest. Its not sexy.

Done!

 

[cupcrazy]

If you have to ask how to ask for a BBBJ, you shouldnt be asking.

I have never been to a spa where I wasnt offered FS.

And I am ugly, balding, skinny and have a small penis. Plus, I look poor too.

If I can get a full menu, anyone can.

I want to know which spa you went to?