Poll Have you ever broken up with and subsequently made up with a favorite SW?

[UsefulIdiot]

I, and at least a few others here, have gotten close to an SW, then had a falling out or cooling off, but then started seeing them again few months to a year later with re-ignited interest and past sins forgiven. I wonder how common this is?

 

[lasslicker]

If you've played in this arena long enough it would seem inevitable.

I once had a run-in with an owner who in anger banned and threatened me.
Three years later a mutual friend/MPA who started working at that mamsan's spa paved the road to a very sweet and naughty reconciliation.

 

[Liaable]

Almost thought you are spying on me lol

Stopped seeing fav because she ghosted me without any heads up or text, it was around covid and had no option so contacted her to reconcile, then she subsequently show lack of interest lately so gave her ultimatum and moved on. I don't plan on going back this time though.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Shameless bump.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Shameless bump.

Yeah on my birthday 3 days ago. I promised her I would not get mad and even when I am I find myself complimenting her. We made up nicely. I told her I see other girls to protect my heart and I meant it and she believed me a bit. She treats me like a king I am very happy with her.

 

[Balsafire]

I, and at least a few others here, have gotten close to an SW, then had a falling out or cooling off, but then started seeing them again few months to a year later with re-ignited interest and past sins forgiven. I wonder how common this is?

Your SW friend has to have some industry longevity, and in all probability that kind of behaviour will lead to her losing too many clients.

My experience has been that by the time I want to forgive them, they are long gone.

 

[HandyAndy]

I’ve gotten close with a few MPA’s for take-out/ dating. One asked me not to see her at the spa after we broke it off IRL so I never have since, which is a shame because she’s DDG. Others ghosted me after a while so I’ll take the hint and move on. Never ‘made up’ with one and gone back for more although I’d definitely like to for a couple of them

 

[Deleted member 101953]

The OP already knows my story and looking back on it now, it was for her own good..i've gradually moved on tho
Did try to reconcile by txt/PM on MP and she ghosted/blocked me. That's all I needed to know about her..
I wish her well...........

 

[UsefulIdiot]

The SW I have in mind felt hurt that I did not try to go back sooner. Making up with her was joyous. I did not see her for seven months. Perhaps that door was ready to open after four months. But a certain amount of time was needed.

 

[VinnyBulbarino]

I was seeing one at the spa and also outside of the spa. We had a falling out, then she reached out to me to reconcile. Things were going ok and then she ghosted me. All happened for the best, don’t want someone who is that emotionally unstable around me.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

I’ve gotten close with a few MPA’s for take-out/ dating. One asked me not to see her at the spa after we broke it off IRL so I never have since, which is a shame because she’s DDG. Others ghosted me after a while so I’ll take the hint and move on. Never ‘made up’ with one and gone back for more although I’d definitely like to for a couple of them

If it has been longer than a year it might be worth a return visit. You never know.

 

[HandyAndy]

If it has been longer than a year it might be worth a return visit. You never know.

I probably could, She probably won’t even remember me

 

[hangul99]

I break up with them every time I leave the spa. I love my life 60 minutes at a time. Lol!

 

[Olivia.]

I break

The SW I have in mind felt hurt that I did not try to go back sooner. Making up with her was joyous. I did not see her for seven months. Perhaps that door was ready to open after four months. But a certain amount of time was needed.

Yep 2 actually . @AznGangs and @strokemycock moms

 

[Flatulent Fox]

I've had a number of breakups but no makeups. I almost made up once but it didn't work. This was an agency SP I was seeing regularly, then one day she messaged me and said she wasn't comfortable seeing me anymore. I asked why and she wouldn't answer, so I left it at that. Then 8 months later she messages me and just says come see me again. I said that's it, no apology or explanation? She says I don't owe you anything, we had a few more words, and she blocked me.

She's still active and her agency uses several 2 bedroom condos, so now if I want to see another SP there I have to make sure she isn't there at the same time.

 

[Hornet]

If you ever get an mpa with bipolar disorder it happens all the time.

 

[Flyingfox]

I've had a number of breakups but no makeups. I almost made up once but it didn't work. This was an agency SP I was seeing regularly, then one day she messaged me and said she wasn't comfortable seeing me anymore. I asked why and she wouldn't answer, so I left it at that. Then 8 months later she messages me and just says come see me again. I said that's it, no apology or explanation? She says I don't owe you anything, we had a few more words, and she blocked me.

She's still active and her agency uses several 2 bedroom condos, so now if I want to see another SP there I have to make sure she isn't there at the same time.

If she has blocked you, you should not care about her feeling for seeing another SP in the same condo. She said she did not owe you anything. Neither do you. Just let her know how you enjoy the time with her roommate SP.

 

[imthedude]

Yes, be sure to LOUDLY declare your satisfaction from the second room, and treat it as a transaction, like you were reciting a google review. For extra points, do an impression of Matt Berry.

 

[Liaable]

I was talking to one of AMPs about my past experience and all with others, regulars, you know stuff....

For some reason, including the amp i was talking to, it seems many are under the impression that we'll go back to our regular regardless of dissatisfaction, disrespect and etc..she said we'll go back since we are regulars and we like our regulars....kind of 'wut?' moment..lol

 

[UsefulIdiot]

I was talking to one of AMPs about my past experience and all with others, regulars, you know stuff....

For some reason, including the amp i was talking to, it seems many are under the impression that we'll go back to our regular regardless of dissatisfaction, disrespect and etc..she said we'll go back since we are regulars and we like our regulars....kind of 'wut?' moment..lol

That actually makes sense in the case of optimists. A pessimist will give up easily, move on, not look back. An optimist, after a period of time, will remember what he liked about an SW. A nuisance goes back too soon. I am by nature a cautious optimist.