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They won't listen, they won't learn. I have learned to skip em for now
This is my first FR tried this girl called Priyanka from Thane number ending with 2926. I have to thank Samier aka samkumar8783 for providing me the number when no one was willing to share. Thanks brother.
The girl looks like she is 22 years old fixed the meeting she was very nice talked a lot n heard from her that she just kicked off (don't know how mucbof that was true) well her pu**y was tight..she does modelling n was showing off her pics that she had done ...very cooperative. Started of with DFK full gfe it was very good in nature Jonny was in mood by now tried everything possible she like doggy... not a clock watcher.. was ready to give bBJ but I said CBJ I was a lil scared about being unsafe should definitely go to her worth every penny.
Damage-3.5 k
Face-7/10
Boobs-8/10
Ass-8/10
WIR- definitely yes!
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The girl looks like she is 22 years old fixed the meeting she was very nice talked a lot n heard from her that she just kicked off (don't know how mucbof that was true) well her pu**y was tight..she does modelling n was showing off her pics that she had done ...very cooperative. Started of with DFK full gfe it was very good in nature Jonny was in mood by now tried everything possible she like doggy... not a clock watcher.. was ready to give bBJ but I said CBJ I was a lil scared about being unsafe should definitely go to her worth every penny.
Damage-3.5 k
Face-7/10
Boobs-8/10
Ass-8/10
WIR- definitely yes!
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HI can you share details..
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Met yesterday with a milf lady in her age around 30+ but smart good looking maintained met her at vashi she lives in some other location jo usane mujhe bataya nahi usaka husband dubai mai work karta hai and wo yaha apni mother in law k sath rehti hai..fir wo vashi aayi jisake liye mujhe uska travel ka bhi dena pada then wo meri place pe aayi humne thoda relax kia then ek dusre k sath thoda cozy hue with kisssing and then kuch hi daer mai hum nude the then we started the session with missionary position then doggy style and then again missionary Maine usako one program k liye bulaya tha jisake liye she was charging 7k for one but she got impressed and i got lucky ki uska mood kar gaya and said ki kabhi kabhi karti hu aur usame bhi koi dhang ka karne wala nahi milta mai pyasi hi reh jaati hu and she asked me to do it again and that too without any cost and i again started banging her it was good experience with her i loved her total gf experience and she was good as she was enjoying it too
Total damage 8k
7k for shot and 1k travel allowance
4/5 she was good
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Total damage 8k
7k for shot and 1k travel allowance
4/5 she was good
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Escort To Libido Land
What does buying sex do to men? And what about womenโs fantasies of freedom? Nishtha Gautam traces the contours of โprostitution by choiceโ
A young girl from Varanasi goes to Mumbai to look for a job and ends up as a high-profile escort. Carefully hiding her secret, she pulls out her family from a state of financial distress. This is the story of a 2007 Hindi film, Laaga Chunari Mein Daag, with Rani Mukerji in the lead role. This is also the story of the changing face of prostitution in India, no more confined to the seedy bylanes and dingy cubbyholes of Shivdaspur in Varanasi, Sonagachi in Kolkata, Kamathipura in Mumbai, GB Road in Delhi and many other traditional โred-light areasโ.
With changing lifestyles and the advent of technology, the sites, sights and sounds related to commercial sex work have undergone several radical transformations down the centuries. From the sophisticated nagar-vadhu to tawaif, to nautch-girl, to under-age sex slaves in city brothels, to the world-travelling escort, the woman who extends sexual pleasure in return for money and material comforts now has many avatars. The most defining feature of this new-age prostitution, however, appears to be an insistence on choice. Many educated young women, and men, are in this profession, purely out of choice.
Is Prostitution a Matter of Choice?
Ruchira Gupta, founder of anti-trafficking organisation Apne Aap, has a contrary opinion on the matter of choice. โA woman sells her body only when other vistas of earning livelihood are not open to her,โ she says. How, then, does one place girls like Dina (name changed on request), a post-graduate student in New Delhi who admits to being in the profession just for the fun and money? When Dina came to the city for higher studies, she began to explore its vibrant clubbing scene, only to soon realise that her pocket money was insufficient to pay for her exorbitant wine-dine bills and concert tickets. She tried landing herself some small-time modelling assignments with lesser-known agencies, but her income clearly wasnโt enough for the aspirational lifestyle she sought. โIt was purely a matter of funding my lifestyle,โ she recalls. โI am a music junkie and like to unwind at classy places. But I canโt afford many of those. So I find somebody who can. I am not in a committed relationship. I see myself more as a serial dater. These days, people are hooking up with each other like never before. There are so many dating apps as well that make no-strings relationships casual and easily accessible. People end up having sex on their first date itself. When I am out with a man, I see the evening as a date and try to make the most out of it. Some guys are good, some are obnoxious. But thatโs a risk I take.โ
Natasha (name changed on request), a Russian escort, accompanying a Delhi businessman to a reputed five-star hotel, shares that she came to India to be able to ensure a comfortable life for her daughter. When asked how she brings herself to like Indian men, she answers stoically, โIt is work.โ She is particularly happy with this client at hand as he appears to be a clean man with good personal hygiene. He also asks her politely to take a shower.
Modus Operandi
Natasha meets at least four clients every day and makes Rs 6,000 per hour from each of them. Half of that amount goes to the pimp who lists himself as a travel agent. On a typical call, she is dropped off by a driver at the hotel where the client has already pre-booked a room. She and the driver do not know each other. The client pays her the full amount in advance. She calls up the agent to confirm the receipt of payment. For the next one hour, she is with the client. If he wants to extend her stay, he has to pay another Rs 6,000 in advance for the next hour. Natasha is not allowed to share her phone number with the client. Sheโs also not supposed to ask him for his personal contact details. The phone she carries with her belongs to the agency and is used rotationally. If the client wants to meet her again, he needs to tell the agent about the same.
Most escort โcompaniesโ work in a professional manner and sometimes also carry out billed transactions, should the clients need them for reimbursement. There are options of using serviced apartments instead of hotels, should the client insist on an added layer of privacy. In this industry, like in pornography, women are paid more than men. Not sure if it gives the wage gap crusaders a reason to rejoice. Predictably, foreigner escorts bill higher than Indian ones.
Business Aids
Some nightclubs and pubs in Delhi-NCR have also established their reputation as haunts where โhot girlsโ are seen aplenty. One restaurant owner confides that he has a bunch of smartly turned out girls who are paid to โhang outโ at his property to lure party hoppers. The girls may or may not be involved in actual sex work, but they do play an important role in getting him daily business. In return, the girls get to party at swanky places and network with big names. Ashwin Mushran, Mumbai-based actor who occasionally doubles up as DJ, however seems surprised at such a trend. โIs it a cultural thing?โ he wonders. โIn Mumbai, Iโve not yet come across this. The places I go to as a DJ or simply to grab a beer with friends get business because of the ambience and experience they offer. Iโd be very surprised if owners used women as bait.โ
In Delhi, the city of movers and shakers, wheelers and dealers, escorts are routinely used as ice-breakers, honey traps, currency as well as celebratory champagne. This October, a New York-based lawyer C. Edmonds Allen grabbed eyeballs by alleging that a BJP MP was honey trapped using a European escort. Allen wrote a letter to PM Narendra Modi stating that arms dealer Abhishek Verma, his erstwhile client, blackmailed the MP with visual proofs of him with foreign escorts. The politician, then a member of the parliamentary committee on defence, allegedly shared classified information with arms manufacturers.
Preferring to remain anonymous, a senior manager at an iconic five-star hotel in the national capital shares that during winters there is a sharp rise in the number of escorts present on his property. โDelhi winters attract a lot of travellers from abroad,โ he says. โPeople travel for business, conferences and leisure. There are deals to be closed, negotiations to be opened and generous spattering of festivity in the air. People in general want to have a good time. Escorts, too, thrive during this time of the year. They get a lot of work done smoothly.โ
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Escort To Libido Land
What does buying sex do to men? And what about womenโs fantasies of freedom? Nishtha Gautam traces the contours of โprostitution by choiceโ
NISHTHA GAUTAM
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ILLUSTRATION BY SAJITH KUMAR
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A young girl from Varanasi goes to Mumbai to look for a job and ends up as a high-profile escort. Carefully hiding her secret, she pulls out her family from a state of financial distress. This is the story of a 2007 Hindi film, Laaga Chunari Mein Daag, with Rani Mukerji in the lead role. This is also the story of the changing face of prostitution in India, no more confined to the seedy bylanes and dingy cubbyholes of Shivdaspur in Varanasi, Sonagachi in Kolkata, Kamathipura in Mumbai, GB Road in Delhi and many other traditional โred-light areasโ.
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With changing lifestyles and the advent of technology, the sites, sights and sounds related to commercial sex work have undergone several radical transformations down the centuries. From the sophisticated nagar-vadhu to tawaif, to nautch-girl, to under-age sex slaves in city brothels, to the world-travelling escort, the woman who extends sexual pleasure in return for money and material comforts now has many avatars. The most defining feature of this new-age prostitution, however, appears to be an insistence on choice. Many educated young women, and men, are in this profession, purely out of choice.
Is Prostitution a Matter of Choice?
Ruchira Gupta, founder of anti-trafficking organisation Apne Aap, has a contrary opinion on the matter of choice. โA woman sells her body only when other vistas of earning livelihood are not open to her,โ she says. How, then, does one place girls like Dina (name changed on request), a post-graduate student in New Delhi who admits to being in the profession just for the fun and money? When Dina came to the city for higher studies, she began to explore its vibrant clubbing scene, only to soon realise that her pocket money was insufficient to pay for her exorbitant wine-dine bills and concert tickets. She tried landing herself some small-time modelling assignments with lesser-known agencies, but her income clearly wasnโt enough for the aspirational lifestyle she sought. โIt was purely a matter of funding my lifestyle,โ she recalls. โI am a music junkie and like to unwind at classy places. But I canโt afford many of those. So I find somebody who can. I am not in a committed relationship. I see myself more as a serial dater. These days, people are hooking up with each other like never before. There are so many dating apps as well that make no-strings relationships casual and easily accessible. People end up having sex on their first date itself. When I am out with a man, I see the evening as a date and try to make the most out of it. Some guys are good, some are obnoxious. But thatโs a risk I take.โ
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Natasha (name changed on request), a Russian escort, accompanying a Delhi businessman to a reputed five-star hotel, shares that she came to India to be able to ensure a comfortable life for her daughter. When asked how she brings herself to like Indian men, she answers stoically, โIt is work.โ She is particularly happy with this client at hand as he appears to be a clean man with good personal hygiene. He also asks her politely to take a shower.
Modus Operandi
Natasha meets at least four clients every day and makes Rs 6,000 per hour from each of them. Half of that amount goes to the pimp who lists himself as a travel agent. On a typical call, she is dropped off by a driver at the hotel where the client has already pre-booked a room. She and the driver do not know each other. The client pays her the full amount in advance. She calls up the agent to confirm the receipt of payment. For the next one hour, she is with the client. If he wants to extend her stay, he has to pay another Rs 6,000 in advance for the next hour. Natasha is not allowed to share her phone number with the client. Sheโs also not supposed to ask him for his personal contact details. The phone she carries with her belongs to the agency and is used rotationally. If the client wants to meet her again, he needs to tell the agent about the same.
Advertisement opens in new window
Most escort โcompaniesโ work in a professional manner and sometimes also carry out billed transactions, should the clients need them for reimbursement. There are options of using serviced apartments instead of hotels, should the client insist on an added layer of privacy. In this industry, like in pornography, women are paid more than men. Not sure if it gives the wage gap crusaders a reason to rejoice. Predictably, foreigner escorts bill higher than Indian ones.
Business Aids
Some nightclubs and pubs in Delhi-NCR have also established their reputation as haunts where โhot girlsโ are seen aplenty. One restaurant owner confides that he has a bunch of smartly turned out girls who are paid to โhang outโ at his property to lure party hoppers. The girls may or may not be involved in actual sex work, but they do play an important role in getting him daily business. In return, the girls get to party at swanky places and network with big names. Ashwin Mushran, Mumbai-based actor who occasionally doubles up as DJ, however seems surprised at such a trend. โIs it a cultural thing?โ he wonders. โIn Mumbai, Iโve not yet come across this. The places I go to as a DJ or simply to grab a beer with friends get business because of the ambience and experience they offer. Iโd be very surprised if owners used women as bait.โ
Advertisement opens in new window
In Delhi, the city of movers and shakers, wheelers and dealers, escorts are routinely used as ice-breakers, honey traps, currency as well as celebratory champagne. This October, a New York-based lawyer C. Edmonds Allen grabbed eyeballs by alleging that a BJP MP was honey trapped using a European escort. Allen wrote a letter to PM Narendra Modi stating that arms dealer Abhishek Verma, his erstwhile client, blackmailed the MP with visual proofs of him with foreign escorts. The politician, then a member of the parliamentary committee on defence, allegedly shared classified information with arms manufacturers.
Preferring to remain anonymous, a senior manager at an iconic five-star hotel in the national capital shares that during winters there is a sharp rise in the number of escorts present on his property. โDelhi winters attract a lot of travellers from abroad,โ he says. โPeople travel for business, conferences and leisure. There are deals to be closed, negotiations to be opened and generous spattering of festivity in the air. People in general want to have a good time. Escorts, too, thrive during this time of the year. They get a lot of work done smoothly.โ
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Do big hotels thus get a bad name for having escorts around? โYes, hotels get branded as such. We are trained over the years to spot and restrict escorts,โ he says, proudly claiming, โMost of us hoteliers can even intuit about an escort on our premises, but we deny access only when we are very sure as the stakes are really high.โ He recalls how he had to profusely apologise to a leading actress who was occupying a premium suite in his hotel with her family when she was mistaken for a hooker by a security guard.
Confirming gender bias in the trade, the manager admits they are not trained to spot male escorts. โVery rarely do we come across women checking into hotels and bringing gigolos along.โ When asked about the โbartender pick-upsโ, he recalls, โAs a young trainee, I was approached by a couple. The husband admitted to being impotent and wanted me to have sex with the wife, while he watched. It seemed so bizarre. They were almost sure I would fall for the idea.โ The male desire is seen as surplus and commercial sex work is pegged firmly on this idea.
Rajeev Patra, a commercial pilot, and his wife Nandini (names changed on request), a former airhostess, share information on the sleazy underbelly of the aviation industry as well. โMost low-cost airlines do not pay the cabin crew very well and yet it is a glamorous profession for many. With the boom in the industry, girls from all kinds of socio-economic backgrounds have joined the sector. Their aspirations soar higher than the carrier they work on. Now couple it with the fetish many people have for air-hostesses and you have a full-fledged, well-oiled racket,โ claims Rajeev, while Nandini pitches in, โThe staff at the hotels we have layovers at is also clued in. Those who want to make extra buck share their โavailableโ hours and the clients are accordingly roped in. Dubai layovers are especially popular for this.โ
โThis money is liquid money,โ Rajeev continues. โThey donโt pay taxes for it. The going rate is anywhere from Rs 10,000 to Rs 25,000 per hour.โ One wonders how much demonetisation has impacted these transactions.
He also recalls how during a layover on Diwali, while he was partying with his woman co-pilot and the cabin crew, he experienced this first-hand. The co-pilot left her house keys behind in one of the rooms the cabin crew were occupying. Fifteen minutes later, when she and Rajeev came back to the hotel and requested the front desk to let them go to the room, they were denied access. After many heated exchanges, only she was allowed to go up to the room. โShe came back visibly disturbed and said that the two girls were already busy with three men. On our drive back, we joked about their promptness.โ Do women feel safe during such liaisons? What if there is violence and abuse? โWell, everyone has become a lot more cautious now. If the clients misbehave inside the hotel, the staff steps in. But if the girls meet them outside, itโs far more risky, I think.โ
Nature of Relationships
The men coming to escort agencies are mostly married and wish to keep their emotional and sexual needs separate. Sonali Gupta, a Mumbai-based psychologist and relationship counsellor, says most of her male clients who admit to having paid for sex say the spirit of exploration drives them towards it. โOften the partners are sexually unavailable for long periods, for instance, during pregnancy. Sometimes they decline to indulge in unconventional sexual acts. This is when many men explore their options outside,โ says Sonali. โOrgies and multiple partner acts are unsavoury to many partners. Escorts come in as a handy option in such situations.โ
Unlike the male clients, none of her female clients has ever admitted to having paid for sex. โIโm pretty sure that some women are availing the services of male escorts, but I have not yet heard of anybody even in my private circle.โ How is it, then, that the internet and newspapers suggest male escorts are in high demand? Are women lying about paying up for sex? Or is the male escort industry just a scam? Or do the general squeamishness about sex in India and the high premium paid on chastity make female desire a perverse fetish?
The Gigolo Racket
Recently, a bunch of scamsters were arrested by the Delhi Police for kidnapping Sohail Hashmi, a man who reportedly sought to make some easy bucks by โmassaging high-profile women in south Delhiโ. Lured by online and newspaper ads, many unsuspecting young men approach these โescort agenciesโ and pay registration fees. They keep waiting forever for their first client, while the agency rakes in the moolah. Once conned, they do not even go to the police because prostitution is illegal in India. Moreover, who wants to be seen as an aspiring gigolo?
Amar (name changed on request) is a trainer at a gym in Connaught Place. He was unwilling to speak about his side business as a male prostitute. He communicated his answers through a common friend and said he was not proud of what he did, despite the money and gifts it fetched him. A quick Google search brings pages after pages of gigolos proffering their services to โhousewivesโ. They come with claims of โguaranteed satisfactionโ. They profess to know exactly what women want. Most of their job descriptions are tacky and rife with bad spellings and grammar. Sample these:
โI am living in Delhi and i am hot guy but looking for a hot lady to have extreme fun. I have a good stuff who can bring you in heaven.โ
โPlease contact for your sexual desires. only geniune females entertainted. Full satisfaction gurented.โ
Some, however, are conspicuous for their lyricism. The guy on the other end wants to convince you that your sexuality is precious. No erotic fantasy, no sexual need shall thus ever be ignored. However, it is unlikely that online or newspaper ads find many takers despite the โ100% orgasm and confidentialityโ claims. The orgasm inequality in most committed relationships is seen being overcome through paid sex. If the husband or the boyfriend wants to fall asleep after a shudder in his loins, the woman can easily rationalise the act of engaging a gigolo to do the needful.
However, it still seems to be a minuscule percentage. With no data on this, we only rely on anecdotal evidence. A Delhi-based professional attended her friendโs bachelorette party in Gurgaon recently. There was a handsome male stripper to keep the ladies entertained. โWomen touched his oiled body and ooh-ed and aah-ed,โ she says. โSome were not interested in even that. Men get picked up mostly at gyms. You have a fair rapport with your well-built gym trainer. Heโs a better bet than an utter stranger in your bed. Gigolos and strippers do make for good spectacle, nevertheless.โ
Jatin (name changed on request), a 26-year-old aspiring model, says, โEveryone dreams to become a supermodel. There is such scamper for shows and assignments. We are not even paid very well. We have to sustain our looks and lifestyle. Iโm considering this (gigolo) as a side vocation. You have sex and you get paid for it, what else do you want?โ However, many gigolo interviews in various publications have highlighted that most women need more than just sex.
While the existence of the gigolo is based on womenโs unmet needs in serious relationships, research has shown that casual sex has lesser chances of getting a woman to orgasm. If a gigolo does not โperformโ in the time he has been paid for, is he likely to get another chance? And if itโs not about sex, why wouldnโt women look for companionship, without having to pay for it?
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Escort To Libido Land
What does buying sex do to men? And what about womenโs fantasies of freedom? Nishtha Gautam traces the contours of โprostitution by choiceโ
NISHTHA GAUTAM
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ILLUSTRATION BY SAJITH KUMAR
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A young girl from Varanasi goes to Mumbai to look for a job and ends up as a high-profile escort. Carefully hiding her secret, she pulls out her family from a state of financial distress. This is the story of a 2007 Hindi film, Laaga Chunari Mein Daag, with Rani Mukerji in the lead role. This is also the story of the changing face of prostitution in India, no more confined to the seedy bylanes and dingy cubbyholes of Shivdaspur in Varanasi, Sonagachi in Kolkata, Kamathipura in Mumbai, GB Road in Delhi and many other traditional โred-light areasโ.
Advertisement opens in new window
With changing lifestyles and the advent of technology, the sites, sights and sounds related to commercial sex work have undergone several radical transformations down the centuries. From the sophisticated nagar-vadhu to tawaif, to nautch-girl, to under-age sex slaves in city brothels, to the world-travelling escort, the woman who extends sexual pleasure in return for money and material comforts now has many avatars. The most defining feature of this new-age prostitution, however, appears to be an insistence on choice. Many educated young women, and men, are in this profession, purely out of choice.
Is Prostitution a Matter of Choice?
Ruchira Gupta, founder of anti-trafficking organisation Apne Aap, has a contrary opinion on the matter of choice. โA woman sells her body only when other vistas of earning livelihood are not open to her,โ she says. How, then, does one place girls like Dina (name changed on request), a post-graduate student in New Delhi who admits to being in the profession just for the fun and money? When Dina came to the city for higher studies, she began to explore its vibrant clubbing scene, only to soon realise that her pocket money was insufficient to pay for her exorbitant wine-dine bills and concert tickets. She tried landing herself some small-time modelling assignments with lesser-known agencies, but her income clearly wasnโt enough for the aspirational lifestyle she sought. โIt was purely a matter of funding my lifestyle,โ she recalls. โI am a music junkie and like to unwind at classy places. But I canโt afford many of those. So I find somebody who can. I am not in a committed relationship. I see myself more as a serial dater. These days, people are hooking up with each other like never before. There are so many dating apps as well that make no-strings relationships casual and easily accessible. People end up having sex on their first date itself. When I am out with a man, I see the evening as a date and try to make the most out of it. Some guys are good, some are obnoxious. But thatโs a risk I take.โ
Advertisement opens in new window
Natasha (name changed on request), a Russian escort, accompanying a Delhi businessman to a reputed five-star hotel, shares that she came to India to be able to ensure a comfortable life for her daughter. When asked how she brings herself to like Indian men, she answers stoically, โIt is work.โ She is particularly happy with this client at hand as he appears to be a clean man with good personal hygiene. He also asks her politely to take a shower.
Modus Operandi
Natasha meets at least four clients every day and makes Rs 6,000 per hour from each of them. Half of that amount goes to the pimp who lists himself as a travel agent. On a typical call, she is dropped off by a driver at the hotel where the client has already pre-booked a room. She and the driver do not know each other. The client pays her the full amount in advance. She calls up the agent to confirm the receipt of payment. For the next one hour, she is with the client. If he wants to extend her stay, he has to pay another Rs 6,000 in advance for the next hour. Natasha is not allowed to share her phone number with the client. Sheโs also not supposed to ask him for his personal contact details. The phone she carries with her belongs to the agency and is used rotationally. If the client wants to meet her again, he needs to tell the agent about the same.
Advertisement opens in new window
Most escort โcompaniesโ work in a professional manner and sometimes also carry out billed transactions, should the clients need them for reimbursement. There are options of using serviced apartments instead of hotels, should the client insist on an added layer of privacy. In this industry, like in pornography, women are paid more than men. Not sure if it gives the wage gap crusaders a reason to rejoice. Predictably, foreigner escorts bill higher than Indian ones.
Business Aids
Some nightclubs and pubs in Delhi-NCR have also established their reputation as haunts where โhot girlsโ are seen aplenty. One restaurant owner confides that he has a bunch of smartly turned out girls who are paid to โhang outโ at his property to lure party hoppers. The girls may or may not be involved in actual sex work, but they do play an important role in getting him daily business. In return, the girls get to party at swanky places and network with big names. Ashwin Mushran, Mumbai-based actor who occasionally doubles up as DJ, however seems surprised at such a trend. โIs it a cultural thing?โ he wonders. โIn Mumbai, Iโve not yet come across this. The places I go to as a DJ or simply to grab a beer with friends get business because of the ambience and experience they offer. Iโd be very surprised if owners used women as bait.โ
Advertisement opens in new window
In Delhi, the city of movers and shakers, wheelers and dealers, escorts are routinely used as ice-breakers, honey traps, currency as well as celebratory champagne. This October, a New York-based lawyer C. Edmonds Allen grabbed eyeballs by alleging that a BJP MP was honey trapped using a European escort. Allen wrote a letter to PM Narendra Modi stating that arms dealer Abhishek Verma, his erstwhile client, blackmailed the MP with visual proofs of him with foreign escorts. The politician, then a member of the parliamentary committee on defence, allegedly shared classified information with arms manufacturers.
Preferring to remain anonymous, a senior manager at an iconic five-star hotel in the national capital shares that during winters there is a sharp rise in the number of escorts present on his property. โDelhi winters attract a lot of travellers from abroad,โ he says. โPeople travel for business, conferences and leisure. There are deals to be closed, negotiations to be opened and generous spattering of festivity in the air. People in general want to have a good time. Escorts, too, thrive during this time of the year. They get a lot of work done smoothly.โ
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Do big hotels thus get a bad name for having escorts around? โYes, hotels get branded as such. We are trained over the years to spot and restrict escorts,โ he says, proudly claiming, โMost of us hoteliers can even intuit about an escort on our premises, but we deny access only when we are very sure as the stakes are really high.โ He recalls how he had to profusely apologise to a leading actress who was occupying a premium suite in his hotel with her family when she was mistaken for a hooker by a security guard.
Confirming gender bias in the trade, the manager admits they are not trained to spot male escorts. โVery rarely do we come across women checking into hotels and bringing gigolos along.โ When asked about the โbartender pick-upsโ, he recalls, โAs a young trainee, I was approached by a couple. The husband admitted to being impotent and wanted me to have sex with the wife, while he watched. It seemed so bizarre. They were almost sure I would fall for the idea.โ The male desire is seen as surplus and commercial sex work is pegged firmly on this idea.
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Rajeev Patra, a commercial pilot, and his wife Nandini (names changed on request), a former airhostess, share information on the sleazy underbelly of the aviation industry as well. โMost low-cost airlines do not pay the cabin crew very well and yet it is a glamorous profession for many. With the boom in the industry, girls from all kinds of socio-economic backgrounds have joined the sector. Their aspirations soar higher than the carrier they work on. Now couple it with the fetish many people have for air-hostesses and you have a full-fledged, well-oiled racket,โ claims Rajeev, while Nandini pitches in, โThe staff at the hotels we have layovers at is also clued in. Those who want to make extra buck share their โavailableโ hours and the clients are accordingly roped in. Dubai layovers are especially popular for this.โ
โThis money is liquid money,โ Rajeev continues. โThey donโt pay taxes for it. The going rate is anywhere from Rs 10,000 to Rs 25,000 per hour.โ One wonders how much demonetisation has impacted these transactions.
He also recalls how during a layover on Diwali, while he was partying with his woman co-pilot and the cabin crew, he experienced this first-hand. The co-pilot left her house keys behind in one of the rooms the cabin crew were occupying. Fifteen minutes later, when she and Rajeev came back to the hotel and requested the front desk to let them go to the room, they were denied access. After many heated exchanges, only she was allowed to go up to the room. โShe came back visibly disturbed and said that the two girls were already busy with three men. On our drive back, we joked about their promptness.โ Do women feel safe during such liaisons? What if there is violence and abuse? โWell, everyone has become a lot more cautious now. If the clients misbehave inside the hotel, the staff steps in. But if the girls meet them outside, itโs far more risky, I think.โ
Nature of Relationships
The men coming to escort agencies are mostly married and wish to keep their emotional and sexual needs separate. Sonali Gupta, a Mumbai-based psychologist and relationship counsellor, says most of her male clients who admit to having paid for sex say the spirit of exploration drives them towards it. โOften the partners are sexually unavailable for long periods, for instance, during pregnancy. Sometimes they decline to indulge in unconventional sexual acts. This is when many men explore their options outside,โ says Sonali. โOrgies and multiple partner acts are unsavoury to many partners. Escorts come in as a handy option in such situations.โ
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Unlike the male clients, none of her female clients has ever admitted to having paid for sex. โIโm pretty sure that some women are availing the services of male escorts, but I have not yet heard of anybody even in my private circle.โ How is it, then, that the internet and newspapers suggest male escorts are in high demand? Are women lying about paying up for sex? Or is the male escort industry just a scam? Or do the general squeamishness about sex in India and the high premium paid on chastity make female desire a perverse fetish?
The Gigolo Racket
Recently, a bunch of scamsters were arrested by the Delhi Police for kidnapping Sohail Hashmi, a man who reportedly sought to make some easy bucks by โmassaging high-profile women in south Delhiโ. Lured by online and newspaper ads, many unsuspecting young men approach these โescort agenciesโ and pay registration fees. They keep waiting forever for their first client, while the agency rakes in the moolah. Once conned, they do not even go to the police because prostitution is illegal in India. Moreover, who wants to be seen as an aspiring gigolo?
Amar (name changed on request) is a trainer at a gym in Connaught Place. He was unwilling to speak about his side business as a male prostitute. He communicated his answers through a common friend and said he was not proud of what he did, despite the money and gifts it fetched him. A quick Google search brings pages after pages of gigolos proffering their services to โhousewivesโ. They come with claims of โguaranteed satisfactionโ. They profess to know exactly what women want. Most of their job descriptions are tacky and rife with bad spellings and grammar. Sample these:
โI am living in Delhi and i am hot guy but looking for a hot lady to have extreme fun. I have a good stuff who can bring you in heaven.โ
โPlease contact for your sexual desires. only geniune females entertainted. Full satisfaction gurented.โ
Some, however, are conspicuous for their lyricism. The guy on the other end wants to convince you that your sexuality is precious. No erotic fantasy, no sexual need shall thus ever be ignored. However, it is unlikely that online or newspaper ads find many takers despite the โ100% orgasm and confidentialityโ claims. The orgasm inequality in most committed relationships is seen being overcome through paid sex. If the husband or the boyfriend wants to fall asleep after a shudder in his loins, the woman can easily rationalise the act of engaging a gigolo to do the needful.
However, it still seems to be a minuscule percentage. With no data on this, we only rely on anecdotal evidence. A Delhi-based professional attended her friendโs bachelorette party in Gurgaon recently. There was a handsome male stripper to keep the ladies entertained. โWomen touched his oiled body and ooh-ed and aah-ed,โ she says. โSome were not interested in even that. Men get picked up mostly at gyms. You have a fair rapport with your well-built gym trainer. Heโs a better bet than an utter stranger in your bed. Gigolos and strippers do make for good spectacle, nevertheless.โ
Jatin (name changed on request), a 26-year-old aspiring model, says, โEveryone dreams to become a supermodel. There is such scamper for shows and assignments. We are not even paid very well. We have to sustain our looks and lifestyle. Iโm considering this (gigolo) as a side vocation. You have sex and you get paid for it, what else do you want?โ However, many gigolo interviews in various publications have highlighted that most women need more than just sex.
While the existence of the gigolo is based on womenโs unmet needs in serious relationships, research has shown that casual sex has lesser chances of getting a woman to orgasm. If a gigolo does not โperformโ in the time he has been paid for, is he likely to get another chance? And if itโs not about sex, why wouldnโt women look for companionship, without having to pay for it?
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Law and Order
Speaking on condition of anonymity, an IPS officer in Delhi shared that in the past two years of his tenure, hardly an IPC case was registered against any woman working as an escort in his area, and even less, when it comes to women for whom the profession is apparently a lifestyle choice. Pimps, on the other hand, are routinely rounded up for trafficking girls, and occasionally even boys. Since escorts, male and female, cater mostly to a niche clienteleโaffluent, influential and discreetโdo the police then willingly turn a blind eye to the practice? The police, in many cases, are even seen to undermine sexual assault reported by women citing โdeal gone badโ. The assumptions about women espousing a certain lifestyle and sartorial choices lead to gross violations of victimsโ rights. The victim may not be an escort in the first place.
Violence in the Trade
Ruchira of Apne Aap provides some horrifying insights on commercial sex work in India and the US. โA cursory search of sites and Facebook pages that escorts use reveal the horrors of this occupation,โ she says. โEscorts share tips on what they carry to protect themselves (knives, box cutters, pepper spray) and give advice to each other on how to alleviate the pain of bruises from overzealous spanking and what to do when โscammersโ refuse to pay.โ Indeed, the American Journal of Epidemiology reports a high incidence of rape among escorts as well as a โworkplace homicide rateโ 51 times higher than that of the next most dangerous job (working in a liquor store).
Ruchira recalls her conversation with an aspiring Bollywood actress who doubled up as an escort. The actress, she says, told her, โIt made me feel worthless. They donโt pay attention to what you have to say. Slowly, I stopped paying attention to myself. And those fake smiles. I had to take an injection to unlock a spasm in my jaw. If someone slapped me or knocked me over, I would simply apply make-up over the bruise and keep smiling. In fact, pimps, hotel managers and others punish you if you cry or show any kind of unacceptable emotion. I once tried to speak about it to a reporter, but he did not want stories of tears or coercion. It was depressing, not glamorous or titillating. He kept asking me if I preferred being an escort to other jobs... I finally gave up.โ The woman now runs a small shop, having never made it as an actress. She was lucky enough to go back home with no money, but no diseases and addictions either.
An escortโs is simply not a sustainable occupation, Ruchira believes, and she earns the maximum on her first day in the job. It is a myth that she can save a lot of money to take her through big expenses. In fact, escorts are constantly in debt to meet their medical expenses, pay their bodyguards and pimps, and โlookโ the lifestyle they aspire to nurture, by investing in luxury goods. โEvery bodily penetration has both physical and mental health consequences ranging from unwanted pregnancies, to sexually transmitted diseases, to drug and alcohol dependency used to cope with the rapes and beatings,โ says Ruchira.
So do millions of โnormalโ men assume that sexualised violence and aggression are okay? Do they want to feel the power of total control by buying a woman or simply donโt have the social skills to be in a relationship? Do they seek a good-looking trophy to reaffirm their masculinity? What does sex-buying do to the self-esteem of men? And what becomes of womenโs fantasies and sexual boredom?
Ruchira signs off with this litany of unanswered questions.
Link : http://www.outlookindia.com/magazine/story/escort-to-libido-land/298302
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What does buying sex do to men? And what about womenโs fantasies of freedom? Nishtha Gautam traces the contours of โprostitution by choiceโ
A young girl from Varanasi goes to Mumbai to look for a job and ends up as a high-profile escort. Carefully hiding her secret, she pulls out her family from a state of financial distress. This is the story of a 2007 Hindi film, Laaga Chunari Mein Daag, with Rani Mukerji in the lead role. This is also the story of the changing face of prostitution in India, no more confined to the seedy bylanes and dingy cubbyholes of Shivdaspur in Varanasi, Sonagachi in Kolkata, Kamathipura in Mumbai, GB Road in Delhi and many other traditional โred-light areasโ.
With changing lifestyles and the advent of technology, the sites, sights and sounds related to commercial sex work have undergone several radical transformations down the centuries. From the sophisticated nagar-vadhu to tawaif, to nautch-girl, to under-age sex slaves in city brothels, to the world-travelling escort, the woman who extends sexual pleasure in return for money and material comforts now has many avatars. The most defining feature of this new-age prostitution, however, appears to be an insistence on choice. Many educated young women, and men, are in this profession, purely out of choice.
Is Prostitution a Matter of Choice?
Ruchira Gupta, founder of anti-trafficking organisation Apne Aap, has a contrary opinion on the matter of choice. โA woman sells her body only when other vistas of earning livelihood are not open to her,โ she says. How, then, does one place girls like Dina (name changed on request), a post-graduate student in New Delhi who admits to being in the profession just for the fun and money? When Dina came to the city for higher studies, she began to explore its vibrant clubbing scene, only to soon realise that her pocket money was insufficient to pay for her exorbitant wine-dine bills and concert tickets. She tried landing herself some small-time modelling assignments with lesser-known agencies, but her income clearly wasnโt enough for the aspirational lifestyle she sought. โIt was purely a matter of funding my lifestyle,โ she recalls. โI am a music junkie and like to unwind at classy places. But I canโt afford many of those. So I find somebody who can. I am not in a committed relationship. I see myself more as a serial dater. These days, people are hooking up with each other like never before. There are so many dating apps as well that make no-strings relationships casual and easily accessible. People end up having sex on their first date itself. When I am out with a man, I see the evening as a date and try to make the most out of it. Some guys are good, some are obnoxious. But thatโs a risk I take.โ
Natasha (name changed on request), a Russian escort, accompanying a Delhi businessman to a reputed five-star hotel, shares that she came to India to be able to ensure a comfortable life for her daughter. When asked how she brings herself to like Indian men, she answers stoically, โIt is work.โ She is particularly happy with this client at hand as he appears to be a clean man with good personal hygiene. He also asks her politely to take a shower.
Modus Operandi
Natasha meets at least four clients every day and makes Rs 6,000 per hour from each of them. Half of that amount goes to the pimp who lists himself as a travel agent. On a typical call, she is dropped off by a driver at the hotel where the client has already pre-booked a room. She and the driver do not know each other. The client pays her the full amount in advance. She calls up the agent to confirm the receipt of payment. For the next one hour, she is with the client. If he wants to extend her stay, he has to pay another Rs 6,000 in advance for the next hour. Natasha is not allowed to share her phone number with the client. Sheโs also not supposed to ask him for his personal contact details. The phone she carries with her belongs to the agency and is used rotationally. If the client wants to meet her again, he needs to tell the agent about the same.
Most escort โcompaniesโ work in a professional manner and sometimes also carry out billed transactions, should the clients need them for reimbursement. There are options of using serviced apartments instead of hotels, should the client insist on an added layer of privacy. In this industry, like in pornography, women are paid more than men. Not sure if it gives the wage gap crusaders a reason to rejoice. Predictably, foreigner escorts bill higher than Indian ones.
Business Aids
Some nightclubs and pubs in Delhi-NCR have also established their reputation as haunts where โhot girlsโ are seen aplenty. One restaurant owner confides that he has a bunch of smartly turned out girls who are paid to โhang outโ at his property to lure party hoppers. The girls may or may not be involved in actual sex work, but they do play an important role in getting him daily business. In return, the girls get to party at swanky places and network with big names. Ashwin Mushran, Mumbai-based actor who occasionally doubles up as DJ, however seems surprised at such a trend. โIs it a cultural thing?โ he wonders. โIn Mumbai, Iโve not yet come across this. The places I go to as a DJ or simply to grab a beer with friends get business because of the ambience and experience they offer. Iโd be very surprised if owners used women as bait.โ
In Delhi, the city of movers and shakers, wheelers and dealers, escorts are routinely used as ice-breakers, honey traps, currency as well as celebratory champagne. This October, a New York-based lawyer C. Edmonds Allen grabbed eyeballs by alleging that a BJP MP was honey trapped using a European escort. Allen wrote a letter to PM Narendra Modi stating that arms dealer Abhishek Verma, his erstwhile client, blackmailed the MP with visual proofs of him with foreign escorts. The politician, then a member of the parliamentary committee on defence, allegedly shared classified information with arms manufacturers.
Preferring to remain anonymous, a senior manager at an iconic five-star hotel in the national capital shares that during winters there is a sharp rise in the number of escorts present on his property. โDelhi winters attract a lot of travellers from abroad,โ he says. โPeople travel for business, conferences and leisure. There are deals to be closed, negotiations to be opened and generous spattering of festivity in the air. People in general want to have a good time. Escorts, too, thrive during this time of the year. They get a lot of work done smoothly.โ
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Escort To Libido Land
What does buying sex do to men? And what about womenโs fantasies of freedom? Nishtha Gautam traces the contours of โprostitution by choiceโ
NISHTHA GAUTAM
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ILLUSTRATION BY SAJITH KUMAR
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A young girl from Varanasi goes to Mumbai to look for a job and ends up as a high-profile escort. Carefully hiding her secret, she pulls out her family from a state of financial distress. This is the story of a 2007 Hindi film, Laaga Chunari Mein Daag, with Rani Mukerji in the lead role. This is also the story of the changing face of prostitution in India, no more confined to the seedy bylanes and dingy cubbyholes of Shivdaspur in Varanasi, Sonagachi in Kolkata, Kamathipura in Mumbai, GB Road in Delhi and many other traditional โred-light areasโ.
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With changing lifestyles and the advent of technology, the sites, sights and sounds related to commercial sex work have undergone several radical transformations down the centuries. From the sophisticated nagar-vadhu to tawaif, to nautch-girl, to under-age sex slaves in city brothels, to the world-travelling escort, the woman who extends sexual pleasure in return for money and material comforts now has many avatars. The most defining feature of this new-age prostitution, however, appears to be an insistence on choice. Many educated young women, and men, are in this profession, purely out of choice.
Is Prostitution a Matter of Choice?
Ruchira Gupta, founder of anti-trafficking organisation Apne Aap, has a contrary opinion on the matter of choice. โA woman sells her body only when other vistas of earning livelihood are not open to her,โ she says. How, then, does one place girls like Dina (name changed on request), a post-graduate student in New Delhi who admits to being in the profession just for the fun and money? When Dina came to the city for higher studies, she began to explore its vibrant clubbing scene, only to soon realise that her pocket money was insufficient to pay for her exorbitant wine-dine bills and concert tickets. She tried landing herself some small-time modelling assignments with lesser-known agencies, but her income clearly wasnโt enough for the aspirational lifestyle she sought. โIt was purely a matter of funding my lifestyle,โ she recalls. โI am a music junkie and like to unwind at classy places. But I canโt afford many of those. So I find somebody who can. I am not in a committed relationship. I see myself more as a serial dater. These days, people are hooking up with each other like never before. There are so many dating apps as well that make no-strings relationships casual and easily accessible. People end up having sex on their first date itself. When I am out with a man, I see the evening as a date and try to make the most out of it. Some guys are good, some are obnoxious. But thatโs a risk I take.โ
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Natasha (name changed on request), a Russian escort, accompanying a Delhi businessman to a reputed five-star hotel, shares that she came to India to be able to ensure a comfortable life for her daughter. When asked how she brings herself to like Indian men, she answers stoically, โIt is work.โ She is particularly happy with this client at hand as he appears to be a clean man with good personal hygiene. He also asks her politely to take a shower.
Modus Operandi
Natasha meets at least four clients every day and makes Rs 6,000 per hour from each of them. Half of that amount goes to the pimp who lists himself as a travel agent. On a typical call, she is dropped off by a driver at the hotel where the client has already pre-booked a room. She and the driver do not know each other. The client pays her the full amount in advance. She calls up the agent to confirm the receipt of payment. For the next one hour, she is with the client. If he wants to extend her stay, he has to pay another Rs 6,000 in advance for the next hour. Natasha is not allowed to share her phone number with the client. Sheโs also not supposed to ask him for his personal contact details. The phone she carries with her belongs to the agency and is used rotationally. If the client wants to meet her again, he needs to tell the agent about the same.
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Most escort โcompaniesโ work in a professional manner and sometimes also carry out billed transactions, should the clients need them for reimbursement. There are options of using serviced apartments instead of hotels, should the client insist on an added layer of privacy. In this industry, like in pornography, women are paid more than men. Not sure if it gives the wage gap crusaders a reason to rejoice. Predictably, foreigner escorts bill higher than Indian ones.
Business Aids
Some nightclubs and pubs in Delhi-NCR have also established their reputation as haunts where โhot girlsโ are seen aplenty. One restaurant owner confides that he has a bunch of smartly turned out girls who are paid to โhang outโ at his property to lure party hoppers. The girls may or may not be involved in actual sex work, but they do play an important role in getting him daily business. In return, the girls get to party at swanky places and network with big names. Ashwin Mushran, Mumbai-based actor who occasionally doubles up as DJ, however seems surprised at such a trend. โIs it a cultural thing?โ he wonders. โIn Mumbai, Iโve not yet come across this. The places I go to as a DJ or simply to grab a beer with friends get business because of the ambience and experience they offer. Iโd be very surprised if owners used women as bait.โ
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In Delhi, the city of movers and shakers, wheelers and dealers, escorts are routinely used as ice-breakers, honey traps, currency as well as celebratory champagne. This October, a New York-based lawyer C. Edmonds Allen grabbed eyeballs by alleging that a BJP MP was honey trapped using a European escort. Allen wrote a letter to PM Narendra Modi stating that arms dealer Abhishek Verma, his erstwhile client, blackmailed the MP with visual proofs of him with foreign escorts. The politician, then a member of the parliamentary committee on defence, allegedly shared classified information with arms manufacturers.
Preferring to remain anonymous, a senior manager at an iconic five-star hotel in the national capital shares that during winters there is a sharp rise in the number of escorts present on his property. โDelhi winters attract a lot of travellers from abroad,โ he says. โPeople travel for business, conferences and leisure. There are deals to be closed, negotiations to be opened and generous spattering of festivity in the air. People in general want to have a good time. Escorts, too, thrive during this time of the year. They get a lot of work done smoothly.โ
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Do big hotels thus get a bad name for having escorts around? โYes, hotels get branded as such. We are trained over the years to spot and restrict escorts,โ he says, proudly claiming, โMost of us hoteliers can even intuit about an escort on our premises, but we deny access only when we are very sure as the stakes are really high.โ He recalls how he had to profusely apologise to a leading actress who was occupying a premium suite in his hotel with her family when she was mistaken for a hooker by a security guard.
Confirming gender bias in the trade, the manager admits they are not trained to spot male escorts. โVery rarely do we come across women checking into hotels and bringing gigolos along.โ When asked about the โbartender pick-upsโ, he recalls, โAs a young trainee, I was approached by a couple. The husband admitted to being impotent and wanted me to have sex with the wife, while he watched. It seemed so bizarre. They were almost sure I would fall for the idea.โ The male desire is seen as surplus and commercial sex work is pegged firmly on this idea.
Rajeev Patra, a commercial pilot, and his wife Nandini (names changed on request), a former airhostess, share information on the sleazy underbelly of the aviation industry as well. โMost low-cost airlines do not pay the cabin crew very well and yet it is a glamorous profession for many. With the boom in the industry, girls from all kinds of socio-economic backgrounds have joined the sector. Their aspirations soar higher than the carrier they work on. Now couple it with the fetish many people have for air-hostesses and you have a full-fledged, well-oiled racket,โ claims Rajeev, while Nandini pitches in, โThe staff at the hotels we have layovers at is also clued in. Those who want to make extra buck share their โavailableโ hours and the clients are accordingly roped in. Dubai layovers are especially popular for this.โ
โThis money is liquid money,โ Rajeev continues. โThey donโt pay taxes for it. The going rate is anywhere from Rs 10,000 to Rs 25,000 per hour.โ One wonders how much demonetisation has impacted these transactions.
He also recalls how during a layover on Diwali, while he was partying with his woman co-pilot and the cabin crew, he experienced this first-hand. The co-pilot left her house keys behind in one of the rooms the cabin crew were occupying. Fifteen minutes later, when she and Rajeev came back to the hotel and requested the front desk to let them go to the room, they were denied access. After many heated exchanges, only she was allowed to go up to the room. โShe came back visibly disturbed and said that the two girls were already busy with three men. On our drive back, we joked about their promptness.โ Do women feel safe during such liaisons? What if there is violence and abuse? โWell, everyone has become a lot more cautious now. If the clients misbehave inside the hotel, the staff steps in. But if the girls meet them outside, itโs far more risky, I think.โ
Nature of Relationships
The men coming to escort agencies are mostly married and wish to keep their emotional and sexual needs separate. Sonali Gupta, a Mumbai-based psychologist and relationship counsellor, says most of her male clients who admit to having paid for sex say the spirit of exploration drives them towards it. โOften the partners are sexually unavailable for long periods, for instance, during pregnancy. Sometimes they decline to indulge in unconventional sexual acts. This is when many men explore their options outside,โ says Sonali. โOrgies and multiple partner acts are unsavoury to many partners. Escorts come in as a handy option in such situations.โ
Unlike the male clients, none of her female clients has ever admitted to having paid for sex. โIโm pretty sure that some women are availing the services of male escorts, but I have not yet heard of anybody even in my private circle.โ How is it, then, that the internet and newspapers suggest male escorts are in high demand? Are women lying about paying up for sex? Or is the male escort industry just a scam? Or do the general squeamishness about sex in India and the high premium paid on chastity make female desire a perverse fetish?
The Gigolo Racket
Recently, a bunch of scamsters were arrested by the Delhi Police for kidnapping Sohail Hashmi, a man who reportedly sought to make some easy bucks by โmassaging high-profile women in south Delhiโ. Lured by online and newspaper ads, many unsuspecting young men approach these โescort agenciesโ and pay registration fees. They keep waiting forever for their first client, while the agency rakes in the moolah. Once conned, they do not even go to the police because prostitution is illegal in India. Moreover, who wants to be seen as an aspiring gigolo?
Amar (name changed on request) is a trainer at a gym in Connaught Place. He was unwilling to speak about his side business as a male prostitute. He communicated his answers through a common friend and said he was not proud of what he did, despite the money and gifts it fetched him. A quick Google search brings pages after pages of gigolos proffering their services to โhousewivesโ. They come with claims of โguaranteed satisfactionโ. They profess to know exactly what women want. Most of their job descriptions are tacky and rife with bad spellings and grammar. Sample these:
โI am living in Delhi and i am hot guy but looking for a hot lady to have extreme fun. I have a good stuff who can bring you in heaven.โ
โPlease contact for your sexual desires. only geniune females entertainted. Full satisfaction gurented.โ
Some, however, are conspicuous for their lyricism. The guy on the other end wants to convince you that your sexuality is precious. No erotic fantasy, no sexual need shall thus ever be ignored. However, it is unlikely that online or newspaper ads find many takers despite the โ100% orgasm and confidentialityโ claims. The orgasm inequality in most committed relationships is seen being overcome through paid sex. If the husband or the boyfriend wants to fall asleep after a shudder in his loins, the woman can easily rationalise the act of engaging a gigolo to do the needful.
However, it still seems to be a minuscule percentage. With no data on this, we only rely on anecdotal evidence. A Delhi-based professional attended her friendโs bachelorette party in Gurgaon recently. There was a handsome male stripper to keep the ladies entertained. โWomen touched his oiled body and ooh-ed and aah-ed,โ she says. โSome were not interested in even that. Men get picked up mostly at gyms. You have a fair rapport with your well-built gym trainer. Heโs a better bet than an utter stranger in your bed. Gigolos and strippers do make for good spectacle, nevertheless.โ
Jatin (name changed on request), a 26-year-old aspiring model, says, โEveryone dreams to become a supermodel. There is such scamper for shows and assignments. We are not even paid very well. We have to sustain our looks and lifestyle. Iโm considering this (gigolo) as a side vocation. You have sex and you get paid for it, what else do you want?โ However, many gigolo interviews in various publications have highlighted that most women need more than just sex.
While the existence of the gigolo is based on womenโs unmet needs in serious relationships, research has shown that casual sex has lesser chances of getting a woman to orgasm. If a gigolo does not โperformโ in the time he has been paid for, is he likely to get another chance? And if itโs not about sex, why wouldnโt women look for companionship, without having to pay for it?
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What does buying sex do to men? And what about womenโs fantasies of freedom? Nishtha Gautam traces the contours of โprostitution by choiceโ
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A young girl from Varanasi goes to Mumbai to look for a job and ends up as a high-profile escort. Carefully hiding her secret, she pulls out her family from a state of financial distress. This is the story of a 2007 Hindi film, Laaga Chunari Mein Daag, with Rani Mukerji in the lead role. This is also the story of the changing face of prostitution in India, no more confined to the seedy bylanes and dingy cubbyholes of Shivdaspur in Varanasi, Sonagachi in Kolkata, Kamathipura in Mumbai, GB Road in Delhi and many other traditional โred-light areasโ.
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With changing lifestyles and the advent of technology, the sites, sights and sounds related to commercial sex work have undergone several radical transformations down the centuries. From the sophisticated nagar-vadhu to tawaif, to nautch-girl, to under-age sex slaves in city brothels, to the world-travelling escort, the woman who extends sexual pleasure in return for money and material comforts now has many avatars. The most defining feature of this new-age prostitution, however, appears to be an insistence on choice. Many educated young women, and men, are in this profession, purely out of choice.
Is Prostitution a Matter of Choice?
Ruchira Gupta, founder of anti-trafficking organisation Apne Aap, has a contrary opinion on the matter of choice. โA woman sells her body only when other vistas of earning livelihood are not open to her,โ she says. How, then, does one place girls like Dina (name changed on request), a post-graduate student in New Delhi who admits to being in the profession just for the fun and money? When Dina came to the city for higher studies, she began to explore its vibrant clubbing scene, only to soon realise that her pocket money was insufficient to pay for her exorbitant wine-dine bills and concert tickets. She tried landing herself some small-time modelling assignments with lesser-known agencies, but her income clearly wasnโt enough for the aspirational lifestyle she sought. โIt was purely a matter of funding my lifestyle,โ she recalls. โI am a music junkie and like to unwind at classy places. But I canโt afford many of those. So I find somebody who can. I am not in a committed relationship. I see myself more as a serial dater. These days, people are hooking up with each other like never before. There are so many dating apps as well that make no-strings relationships casual and easily accessible. People end up having sex on their first date itself. When I am out with a man, I see the evening as a date and try to make the most out of it. Some guys are good, some are obnoxious. But thatโs a risk I take.โ
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Natasha (name changed on request), a Russian escort, accompanying a Delhi businessman to a reputed five-star hotel, shares that she came to India to be able to ensure a comfortable life for her daughter. When asked how she brings herself to like Indian men, she answers stoically, โIt is work.โ She is particularly happy with this client at hand as he appears to be a clean man with good personal hygiene. He also asks her politely to take a shower.
Modus Operandi
Natasha meets at least four clients every day and makes Rs 6,000 per hour from each of them. Half of that amount goes to the pimp who lists himself as a travel agent. On a typical call, she is dropped off by a driver at the hotel where the client has already pre-booked a room. She and the driver do not know each other. The client pays her the full amount in advance. She calls up the agent to confirm the receipt of payment. For the next one hour, she is with the client. If he wants to extend her stay, he has to pay another Rs 6,000 in advance for the next hour. Natasha is not allowed to share her phone number with the client. Sheโs also not supposed to ask him for his personal contact details. The phone she carries with her belongs to the agency and is used rotationally. If the client wants to meet her again, he needs to tell the agent about the same.
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Most escort โcompaniesโ work in a professional manner and sometimes also carry out billed transactions, should the clients need them for reimbursement. There are options of using serviced apartments instead of hotels, should the client insist on an added layer of privacy. In this industry, like in pornography, women are paid more than men. Not sure if it gives the wage gap crusaders a reason to rejoice. Predictably, foreigner escorts bill higher than Indian ones.
Business Aids
Some nightclubs and pubs in Delhi-NCR have also established their reputation as haunts where โhot girlsโ are seen aplenty. One restaurant owner confides that he has a bunch of smartly turned out girls who are paid to โhang outโ at his property to lure party hoppers. The girls may or may not be involved in actual sex work, but they do play an important role in getting him daily business. In return, the girls get to party at swanky places and network with big names. Ashwin Mushran, Mumbai-based actor who occasionally doubles up as DJ, however seems surprised at such a trend. โIs it a cultural thing?โ he wonders. โIn Mumbai, Iโve not yet come across this. The places I go to as a DJ or simply to grab a beer with friends get business because of the ambience and experience they offer. Iโd be very surprised if owners used women as bait.โ
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In Delhi, the city of movers and shakers, wheelers and dealers, escorts are routinely used as ice-breakers, honey traps, currency as well as celebratory champagne. This October, a New York-based lawyer C. Edmonds Allen grabbed eyeballs by alleging that a BJP MP was honey trapped using a European escort. Allen wrote a letter to PM Narendra Modi stating that arms dealer Abhishek Verma, his erstwhile client, blackmailed the MP with visual proofs of him with foreign escorts. The politician, then a member of the parliamentary committee on defence, allegedly shared classified information with arms manufacturers.
Preferring to remain anonymous, a senior manager at an iconic five-star hotel in the national capital shares that during winters there is a sharp rise in the number of escorts present on his property. โDelhi winters attract a lot of travellers from abroad,โ he says. โPeople travel for business, conferences and leisure. There are deals to be closed, negotiations to be opened and generous spattering of festivity in the air. People in general want to have a good time. Escorts, too, thrive during this time of the year. They get a lot of work done smoothly.โ
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Do big hotels thus get a bad name for having escorts around? โYes, hotels get branded as such. We are trained over the years to spot and restrict escorts,โ he says, proudly claiming, โMost of us hoteliers can even intuit about an escort on our premises, but we deny access only when we are very sure as the stakes are really high.โ He recalls how he had to profusely apologise to a leading actress who was occupying a premium suite in his hotel with her family when she was mistaken for a hooker by a security guard.
Confirming gender bias in the trade, the manager admits they are not trained to spot male escorts. โVery rarely do we come across women checking into hotels and bringing gigolos along.โ When asked about the โbartender pick-upsโ, he recalls, โAs a young trainee, I was approached by a couple. The husband admitted to being impotent and wanted me to have sex with the wife, while he watched. It seemed so bizarre. They were almost sure I would fall for the idea.โ The male desire is seen as surplus and commercial sex work is pegged firmly on this idea.
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Rajeev Patra, a commercial pilot, and his wife Nandini (names changed on request), a former airhostess, share information on the sleazy underbelly of the aviation industry as well. โMost low-cost airlines do not pay the cabin crew very well and yet it is a glamorous profession for many. With the boom in the industry, girls from all kinds of socio-economic backgrounds have joined the sector. Their aspirations soar higher than the carrier they work on. Now couple it with the fetish many people have for air-hostesses and you have a full-fledged, well-oiled racket,โ claims Rajeev, while Nandini pitches in, โThe staff at the hotels we have layovers at is also clued in. Those who want to make extra buck share their โavailableโ hours and the clients are accordingly roped in. Dubai layovers are especially popular for this.โ
โThis money is liquid money,โ Rajeev continues. โThey donโt pay taxes for it. The going rate is anywhere from Rs 10,000 to Rs 25,000 per hour.โ One wonders how much demonetisation has impacted these transactions.
He also recalls how during a layover on Diwali, while he was partying with his woman co-pilot and the cabin crew, he experienced this first-hand. The co-pilot left her house keys behind in one of the rooms the cabin crew were occupying. Fifteen minutes later, when she and Rajeev came back to the hotel and requested the front desk to let them go to the room, they were denied access. After many heated exchanges, only she was allowed to go up to the room. โShe came back visibly disturbed and said that the two girls were already busy with three men. On our drive back, we joked about their promptness.โ Do women feel safe during such liaisons? What if there is violence and abuse? โWell, everyone has become a lot more cautious now. If the clients misbehave inside the hotel, the staff steps in. But if the girls meet them outside, itโs far more risky, I think.โ
Nature of Relationships
The men coming to escort agencies are mostly married and wish to keep their emotional and sexual needs separate. Sonali Gupta, a Mumbai-based psychologist and relationship counsellor, says most of her male clients who admit to having paid for sex say the spirit of exploration drives them towards it. โOften the partners are sexually unavailable for long periods, for instance, during pregnancy. Sometimes they decline to indulge in unconventional sexual acts. This is when many men explore their options outside,โ says Sonali. โOrgies and multiple partner acts are unsavoury to many partners. Escorts come in as a handy option in such situations.โ
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Unlike the male clients, none of her female clients has ever admitted to having paid for sex. โIโm pretty sure that some women are availing the services of male escorts, but I have not yet heard of anybody even in my private circle.โ How is it, then, that the internet and newspapers suggest male escorts are in high demand? Are women lying about paying up for sex? Or is the male escort industry just a scam? Or do the general squeamishness about sex in India and the high premium paid on chastity make female desire a perverse fetish?
The Gigolo Racket
Recently, a bunch of scamsters were arrested by the Delhi Police for kidnapping Sohail Hashmi, a man who reportedly sought to make some easy bucks by โmassaging high-profile women in south Delhiโ. Lured by online and newspaper ads, many unsuspecting young men approach these โescort agenciesโ and pay registration fees. They keep waiting forever for their first client, while the agency rakes in the moolah. Once conned, they do not even go to the police because prostitution is illegal in India. Moreover, who wants to be seen as an aspiring gigolo?
Amar (name changed on request) is a trainer at a gym in Connaught Place. He was unwilling to speak about his side business as a male prostitute. He communicated his answers through a common friend and said he was not proud of what he did, despite the money and gifts it fetched him. A quick Google search brings pages after pages of gigolos proffering their services to โhousewivesโ. They come with claims of โguaranteed satisfactionโ. They profess to know exactly what women want. Most of their job descriptions are tacky and rife with bad spellings and grammar. Sample these:
โI am living in Delhi and i am hot guy but looking for a hot lady to have extreme fun. I have a good stuff who can bring you in heaven.โ
โPlease contact for your sexual desires. only geniune females entertainted. Full satisfaction gurented.โ
Some, however, are conspicuous for their lyricism. The guy on the other end wants to convince you that your sexuality is precious. No erotic fantasy, no sexual need shall thus ever be ignored. However, it is unlikely that online or newspaper ads find many takers despite the โ100% orgasm and confidentialityโ claims. The orgasm inequality in most committed relationships is seen being overcome through paid sex. If the husband or the boyfriend wants to fall asleep after a shudder in his loins, the woman can easily rationalise the act of engaging a gigolo to do the needful.
However, it still seems to be a minuscule percentage. With no data on this, we only rely on anecdotal evidence. A Delhi-based professional attended her friendโs bachelorette party in Gurgaon recently. There was a handsome male stripper to keep the ladies entertained. โWomen touched his oiled body and ooh-ed and aah-ed,โ she says. โSome were not interested in even that. Men get picked up mostly at gyms. You have a fair rapport with your well-built gym trainer. Heโs a better bet than an utter stranger in your bed. Gigolos and strippers do make for good spectacle, nevertheless.โ
Jatin (name changed on request), a 26-year-old aspiring model, says, โEveryone dreams to become a supermodel. There is such scamper for shows and assignments. We are not even paid very well. We have to sustain our looks and lifestyle. Iโm considering this (gigolo) as a side vocation. You have sex and you get paid for it, what else do you want?โ However, many gigolo interviews in various publications have highlighted that most women need more than just sex.
While the existence of the gigolo is based on womenโs unmet needs in serious relationships, research has shown that casual sex has lesser chances of getting a woman to orgasm. If a gigolo does not โperformโ in the time he has been paid for, is he likely to get another chance? And if itโs not about sex, why wouldnโt women look for companionship, without having to pay for it?
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Law and Order
Speaking on condition of anonymity, an IPS officer in Delhi shared that in the past two years of his tenure, hardly an IPC case was registered against any woman working as an escort in his area, and even less, when it comes to women for whom the profession is apparently a lifestyle choice. Pimps, on the other hand, are routinely rounded up for trafficking girls, and occasionally even boys. Since escorts, male and female, cater mostly to a niche clienteleโaffluent, influential and discreetโdo the police then willingly turn a blind eye to the practice? The police, in many cases, are even seen to undermine sexual assault reported by women citing โdeal gone badโ. The assumptions about women espousing a certain lifestyle and sartorial choices lead to gross violations of victimsโ rights. The victim may not be an escort in the first place.
Violence in the Trade
Ruchira of Apne Aap provides some horrifying insights on commercial sex work in India and the US. โA cursory search of sites and Facebook pages that escorts use reveal the horrors of this occupation,โ she says. โEscorts share tips on what they carry to protect themselves (knives, box cutters, pepper spray) and give advice to each other on how to alleviate the pain of bruises from overzealous spanking and what to do when โscammersโ refuse to pay.โ Indeed, the American Journal of Epidemiology reports a high incidence of rape among escorts as well as a โworkplace homicide rateโ 51 times higher than that of the next most dangerous job (working in a liquor store).
Ruchira recalls her conversation with an aspiring Bollywood actress who doubled up as an escort. The actress, she says, told her, โIt made me feel worthless. They donโt pay attention to what you have to say. Slowly, I stopped paying attention to myself. And those fake smiles. I had to take an injection to unlock a spasm in my jaw. If someone slapped me or knocked me over, I would simply apply make-up over the bruise and keep smiling. In fact, pimps, hotel managers and others punish you if you cry or show any kind of unacceptable emotion. I once tried to speak about it to a reporter, but he did not want stories of tears or coercion. It was depressing, not glamorous or titillating. He kept asking me if I preferred being an escort to other jobs... I finally gave up.โ The woman now runs a small shop, having never made it as an actress. She was lucky enough to go back home with no money, but no diseases and addictions either.
An escortโs is simply not a sustainable occupation, Ruchira believes, and she earns the maximum on her first day in the job. It is a myth that she can save a lot of money to take her through big expenses. In fact, escorts are constantly in debt to meet their medical expenses, pay their bodyguards and pimps, and โlookโ the lifestyle they aspire to nurture, by investing in luxury goods. โEvery bodily penetration has both physical and mental health consequences ranging from unwanted pregnancies, to sexually transmitted diseases, to drug and alcohol dependency used to cope with the rapes and beatings,โ says Ruchira.
So do millions of โnormalโ men assume that sexualised violence and aggression are okay? Do they want to feel the power of total control by buying a woman or simply donโt have the social skills to be in a relationship? Do they seek a good-looking trophy to reaffirm their masculinity? What does sex-buying do to the self-esteem of men? And what becomes of womenโs fantasies and sexual boredom?
Ruchira signs off with this litany of unanswered questions.
Link : http://www.outlookindia.com/magazine/story/escort-to-libido-land/298302
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Nav1983
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Tomy nice FR..keep banging and keep writing!!!
could you please exchange her number..thanks!!!
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I hv been there once a year ago with P.S over there. While leaving, i saw 3 girls of indie type entering from back door and heading towards their room. i did not had guts to ask waiter.
is she with place or you went to lodge.
Hello.. Sorry for the long post.
I am an old user (previously *freejack*, but I forgot the credentials)
I was in UAE, came back to India for good in January.
Before that I had tried quiet a few indies..
And have posted FRs too..
Since Jan too, I have visited some. I will post FRs back to back. Please note that I dont check msgs on this forum frequently.
Its not that I dnt want to share and all. I have helped quite a few members with numbers here.
FR01
Gudiya:
January,
Despite what every1 tells, she was a personal go to everytime I wad in the mood, reasons being,
1. She's the nearest to me.
2. Cheapest option.
She was the first one I contacted aftr coming back. She recognised and called me to her house.
As described she's short, a lil plump, bengali chick. A little loose boobs (but those are common these days) and a tight pussy.
Went in. Started with foreplay. Love it. The DFKs and licking. That I knew her from long before gets me some extra points I guess.
Condi on. I completed in missionary. After I was done I wasn't in the mood for seconds, but she held on. Talking about this that, son's education, Lufe in general and what not.
Time for second, after a bj she came on top, and after sometime I was done.
Thanked her, bid her goodbye and left
Face: 6/10
Boobs: 5/10 (Loose)
WIR: I did repeat her after that.
. For the reasons given.
** Please note this FR was of before someone posted abt her having some STD. I had asked her about this, and she was saying it was due to thyroid issues. She calls up in between saying that she is now fine and that she has reports to show too. But I am wary!
FR02 on the way.
I am an old user (previously *freejack*, but I forgot the credentials)
I was in UAE, came back to India for good in January.
Before that I had tried quiet a few indies..
And have posted FRs too..
Since Jan too, I have visited some. I will post FRs back to back. Please note that I dont check msgs on this forum frequently.
Its not that I dnt want to share and all. I have helped quite a few members with numbers here.
FR01
Gudiya:
January,
Despite what every1 tells, she was a personal go to everytime I wad in the mood, reasons being,
1. She's the nearest to me.
2. Cheapest option.
She was the first one I contacted aftr coming back. She recognised and called me to her house.
As described she's short, a lil plump, bengali chick. A little loose boobs (but those are common these days) and a tight pussy.
Went in. Started with foreplay. Love it. The DFKs and licking. That I knew her from long before gets me some extra points I guess.
Condi on. I completed in missionary. After I was done I wasn't in the mood for seconds, but she held on. Talking about this that, son's education, Lufe in general and what not.
Time for second, after a bj she came on top, and after sometime I was done.
Thanked her, bid her goodbye and left
Face: 6/10
Boobs: 5/10 (Loose)
WIR: I did repeat her after that.
. For the reasons given.** Please note this FR was of before someone posted abt her having some STD. I had asked her about this, and she was saying it was due to thyroid issues. She calls up in between saying that she is now fine and that she has reports to show too. But I am wary!
FR02 on the way.
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Sunday at๐๐ธ๐ต๐ฒ๐ญ๐ช๐ ๐ข๐น๐ช3517 Kennedy Rd, Unit 4, Scarborough ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ณ-๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ณ-๐ญ๐ญ๐ต๐ต: Amy & Fiona. AMY is an attractive young lady with larger breasts and a nice bottom. She has outstanding oral skills, and is very popular. Donโt miss out on her special skills! FIONA is a slim hottie with long dark hair, great melons and ass, and nice services. HOLIDAY SPA 3517 Kennedy
- dolly nuru:
If you are in around Montreal, come see me for amazing NURU massage - Dolly Nuru - Montreal - 4379807330 - 650Rue Notre-Dame, Repentigny, QC J6A 2W3
- bnwellness_wilson:
We have 3 young girls are working today, young pretty Lily 25โs with curve body and sexy Coco,,cute GFE Lina are providing deep tissue massage, pls call 4163985777 book appointment and walk in always welcome,back entrance and parking available, 350 Wilson Ave North York
- Jennyโs Spa:
JENNYโS SPA 5170 DUNDAS STREET WEST 
ETOBICOKE ONTARIO M9A 1C4 ( 647-893-5196)Call or Text ( 437-888-3759)Call Only (ETOBICOKE) OPEN 10am to 9pm MONDAY to SUNDAY GRAND OPENING
NEW GIRLS EVERYDAYEXCELLENT MASSAGE + SERVICE QUEENS NOW AVAILABLE AT JENNYโS SPA FOR ALL YOUR MASSAGE AND SPECIAL EXTRA NEEDS BEAUTIFUL NEW YOUNG ASIAN GIRLS EVERYDAY REAL PICTURES OF ATTENDANTS Limited Time Special Promotion 
30 Minutes Nude Massage - Red Rose Spa:
We have 11 hot brown girls today ASHA, SABHA, KIRAN, MONIKA, ANNA, MEGAN, SARIKA, NUR 2588 Birchmount 2 Invergordon 647-702-8800 Please visit for a great erotic massage
- Annie Spa:
ANNIE SPA 7-1001 SANDHURST CIRCLE SCARBOROUGH ON M1V 1Z6 (647) 891-9688 (416) 291-8879 (FINCH & MCCOWAN) OPEN 9:30am to 9pm MONDAY to SUNDAY NEW MANAGEMENTNEW GIRLS GORGEOUS NEW YOUNG ASIAN GIRLS - TODAYโs ROSTER INCLUDES: YumiA striking new tall gorgeous Korean model with long, flowing reddish-brown hair cascading down her back and a slender, elegant figure that exudes grace and poise. Yumiโs natural confidence and allure, make her approach
- Lulu_Villa_Spa:
Elena Vietnamese Suki From Taiwan, sweet girl Cici Cute Vietnamese Girl Judy is a gorgeous model type Vietnamese Girl Bella She is Mexican Gorgeous face647- 446-0886
- Lulu1980:
Phoenix Blossom Spa2 girls 5124 Dundas St W Etobicoke416-817-3366 Table Shower Sea Salt Bath Body Scrub Japanese girl Nina Natural Big Boobs 38 DD Pink Mini Nipples Hot body slide, super enjoyable very provocative service, professional super Luna deep tissue massage, has therapeutic effect to loosen bones and relieve muscle pressure and will bring you unexpected service effects, she will bring you a little surpriseYou are welcome to make an appoint
- DareDevil:
Blackpink Wellness90 Marycroft Ave. Unit #2, Vaughan, ON L4L 5Y1 (647) 395-3188. BEAUTIFUL AND SEXY GIRLS TODAY: Sexy Monica, RMT Rose and Beautiful Tiffany on duty.
- luckywellness:
Lucky Wellness Center 4379721888 295 Eglinton Ave E,Unit 7,Mississauga Yoyo and Mimi are at work today. They are young, pretty, cute, good at massage and fun.
- DareDevil:
ARIA WELLNESSADDRESS: 360 HWY 7, UNIT #6, RICHMOND HILL,647-222-5683 (PHONES CALL ONLY, NO TEXT'N AVAILABLE) TODAY'S Schedule! Loaded lineup with Beautiful Girls : New Sexy Busty Girl Faye, Magical Mia and Work out๐ Babe Amy! BUY 10 HOURS (GET 11 HOURS) **TODAY'S PICK OF THE DAY IS FAYE**
- wonderspa:
welcome to wonder spa416-5000-800,L6a4H8๏ผwe have 4young beautiful girls working everyday,Happy Sunday,ensuit shower available , friendly nice girl Sunny providing deep tissue to relax oil message back walking hot stone and nice body slide,big big boob sexy face Joey is very good looking,amazing massage,open maid,really popular girl,You can get comfortable warm time,must try
- Spa in Markham:
- EMSpa_schedule:
Tomorrow's sneak peek: On Sunday May 11, 2025, our attendants will be Ada โค, Christina
, Cici , Ivy 
and Lucy โค. Call us at (905) 479-6668 to book! - BlueXado Therapy & Spa:
BlueXado โ 1102 Centre St, Thornhill 416-357-9797 | 416-678-8668 Candy
, Mika 
, Amy (10โ1AM) Book Now - Pink Flower Spa:
Pink Flower โ 3300 McNicoll Ave, Scarborough 416-299-5515 | 416-817-3839 Elina
, Kelly , Mady 
, Vanessa 
(10โ9PM) Book Now - SL East Spa:
โโSexy Saturday Ultimate destination for Asian massages Two fab spots: Richmond Hill & Oakville Your passport to paradise with 9 enchanting girls fr China, HK, Japan & Korea โ Cici, Yoyo, Amber, Juliet, GFE Eva,Echo,
Julia, Akino & Jennyโ 
Ring us 647-695-6354 or text us 
647-578-8169 160 East Beaver Cr., Unit 12, RichmondHill 
Where Eastern charm meets Western comfort - Your Black Friday Bliss is Here!
- wonderspa:
welcome to wonder spa416-5000-800,L6a4H8๏ผ. 4young beautiful girls working everyday,Ensuit shower available ,new friendly nice girl CiCi,providing oil deep tissue to relax massage and nice body slide,back work,nice Vietnamese Amy is very good looking,big breasted sweet smile,open maid,everything she can do,really popular,must try
give you comfortable amazing time - Lilyspa1:
Lily Spa : SuSu ( Asian )Slim , Porn Service
Elena 22, Latino French, 36 DDD and ASS, Vicky 22, Philippine mixed White , very open-Minded , 
bbbj , DFk Duo , 6475318288 - Lulu1980:
Phoenix Blossom Spa3 girls Table shower ใbody scrub ใ Sea salt bath5124 Dundas St W Etobicoke416-817-3366 Young girl Cherry (Student)โcharming breasts.โbeautiful curvy hips.โvery provocative service, professional super Suki sexy body beautiful boots 36D deep tissue massage, has therapeutic effect to loosen bones and relieve muscle pressure and will bring you unexpected service effects, she will bring you a little surprise You are welcome to make an appointme
- 89moonstar&MoonMoon:
MoonMoon spa/416 887 8801/8131Yonge st #203 Persian girl and Asian girl in today &&& Bradford location 89 Holland st E west Gwillimbury 6477129688 2 hot latin girls today
- Red Rose Spa:
We have 5 hot brown girls today ASHA, JANVI, MONIKA, SASHA, AMANDA, PAOLA, JOEY, SARIKA, KIRAN, SALMA 2588 Birchmount 2 Invergordon 647-702-8800 Please visit for a great erotic massage
- Golden Sunshine Spa:
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Golden Flower โ 8380 Kennedy Rd
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